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Based on the Everyman's Library edition, originally published in 1929, reprinted 1992. (Only the introduction is copyrighted.) ISBN 0 460 87173 0
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After considering the historic page, and viewing the living world
with anxious solicitude, the most melancholy emotions of sorrowful
indignation have depressed my spirits, and I have sighed when
obliged to confess that either Nature has made a great difference
between man and man, or that the civilisation which has hitherto
taken place in the world has been very partial. I have turned over
various books written on the subject of education, and patiently
observed the conduct of parents and the management of schools; but
what has been the result?--a profound conviction that the neglected
education of my fellow-creatures is the grand source of the misery
I deplore, and that women, in particular, are rendered weak and
wretched by a variety of concurring causes, originating from one
hasty conclusion. The conduct and manners of women, in fact,
evidently prove that their minds are not in a healthy state; for,
like the flowers which are planted in too rich a soil, strength and
usefulness are sacrificed to beauty; and the flaunting leaves,
after having pleased a fastidious eye, fade, disregarded on the
stalk, long before the season when they ought to have arrived at
maturity. One cause of this barren blooming I attri- bute to a
false system of education, gathered from the books written on this
subject by men who, considering females rather as women than human
creatures, have been more anxious to make them alluring mistresses
than affectionate wives and rational mothers; and the understanding
of the sex has been so bubbled by this specious homage, that the
civilised women of the present century, with a few exceptions, are
only anxious to inspire love, when they ought to cherish a nobler
ambition, and by their abilities and virtues exact respect.
In a treatise, therefore, on female rights and manners, the works
which have been particularly written for their improve- ment must
not be overlooked, especially when it is asserted, in direct terms,
that the minds of women are enfeebled by false refinement; that the
books of instruction, written by men of genius, have had the same
tendency as more frivolous productions; and that, in the true style
of Mahometanism, they are treated as a kind of subordinate beings,
and not as a part of the human species, when improvable reason is
allowed to be the dignified distinction which raises men above the
brute creation, and puts a natural sceptre in a feeble hand.
Yet, because I am a woman, I would not lead my readers to suppose
that I mean violently to agitate the contested question respecting
the quality or inferiority of the sex; but as the subject lies in
my way, and I cannot pass it over without subjecting the main
tendency of my reasoning to misconstruction, I shall stop a moment
to deliver, in a few words, my opinion. In the government of the
physical world it is observable that the female in point of
strength is, in general, inferior to the male. This is the law of
Nature; and it does not appear to be suspended or abrogated in
favour of woman. A degree of physical superiority cannot,
therefore, be denied, and it is a noble prerogative! But not
content with this natural preeminence, men endeavour to sink us
still lower, merely to render us alluring objects for a moment; and
women, intoxicated by the adoration which men, under the influence
of their senses, pay them, do not seek to obtain a durable interest
in their hearts, or to become the friends of the fellow-creatures
who find amusement in their society.
I am aware of an obvious inference. From every quarter have I heard
exclamations against masculine women, but where are they to be
found? If by this appellation men mean to inveigh against, their
ardour in hunting, shooting, and gaming, I shall most cordially
join in the cry; but if it be against the imitation of manly
virtues, or, more properly speaking, the attainment of those
talents and virtues, the exercise of which ennobles the human
character, and which raises females in the scale of animal being,
when they are comprehensively termed mankind, all those who view
them with a philosophic eye must, I should think, wish with me,
that they may every day grow more and more masculine.
This discussion naturally divides the subject. I shall first
consider women in the gland light of human creatures, who in common
with men, are placed on this earth to unfold their faculties; and
afterwards I shall more particularly point out their peculiar
designation.
I wish also to steer clear of an error which many respectable
writers have fallen into; for the instruction which has hitherto
been addressed to women, has rather been applicable to ladies, if
the little indirect advice that is scattered through "Sandford and
Merton" be excepted; but, addressing my sex in a firmer tone, I pay
particular attention to those in the middle class, because they
appear to be in the most natural state. Perhaps the seeds of false
refinement, immorality, and vanity, have ever been shed by the
great. Weak, artificial beings, raised above the common wants and
affections of their race, in a premature unnatural manner,
undermine the very foundation of virtue, and spread corruption
through the whole mass of society! As a class of mankind they have
the strongest claim to pity; the education of the rich tends to
render them vain and helpless, and the unfolding mind is not
strengthened by the practice of those duties which dignify the
human character. They only live to amuse themselves, and by the
same law which in Nature invariably produces certain effects, they
soon only afford barren amusement.
But as I purpose taking a separate view of the different ranks of
society, and of the moral character of women in each, this hint is
for the present sufficient; and I have only alluded to the subject
because it appears to me to be the very essence of an introduction
to give a cursory account of the contents of the work it
introduces.
My own sex, I hope, will excuse me, if I treat them like rational
creatures, instead of flattering their fascinating graces, and
viewing them as if they were in a state of perpetual childhood,
unable to stand alone. I earnestly wish to point out in what true
dignity and human happiness consists. I wish to persuade women to
endeavour to acquire strength, both of mind and body, and to
convince them that the soft phrases, susceptibility of heart,
delicacy of sentiment, and refinement of taste, are almost
synonymous with epithets of weakness, and that those beings who are
only the objects of pity, and that kind of love which has been
termed its sister, will soon become objects of contempt.
Dismissing, then, those pretty feminine phrases, which the men
condescendingly use to soften our slavish dependence, and despising
that weak elegancy of mind, exquisite sensibility, and sweet
docility of manners, supposed to be the sexual charac- teristics of
the weaker vessel, I wish to show that elegance is inferior to
virtue, that the first object of laudable ambition is to obtain a
character as a hurnan being, regardless of the distinction of sex,
and that secondary views should be brought to this simple
touchstone.
This is a rough sketch of my plan; and should I express my
conviction with the energetic emotions that I feel whenever I think
of the subject, the dictates of experience and reflection will be
felt by some of my readers. Animated by this important object, I
shall disdain to cull my phrases or polish my style. I aim at being
useful, and sincerity will render me unaffected; for, wishing
rather to persuade by the force of my arguments than dazzle by the
elegance of my language, I shall not waste my time in rounding
periods, or in fabricating the turgid bombast of artificial
feelings, which, coming from the head, never reach the heart. I
shall be employed about things, not words! and, anxious to render
my sex more respectable members of society, I shall try to avoid
that flowery diction which has slided from essays into novels, and
from novels into familiar letters and conversation.
These pretty superlatives, dropping glibly from the tongue, vitiate
the taste, and create a kind of sickly delicacy that tums away from
simple unadorned truth; and a deluge of false sentiments and
overstretched feelings, stifling the natural emotions of the heart,
render the domestic pleasures insipid, that ought to sweeten the
exercise of those severe duties, which educate a rational and
immortal being for a nobler field of action.
The education of women has of late been more attended to than
formerly; yet they are still reckoned a frivolous sex, and
ridiculed or pitied by the writers who endeavour by satire or
instruction to improve them. It is acknowledged that they spend
many of the first years of their lives in acquiring a smattering of
accomplishments; meanwhile strength of body and mind are sacrificed
to libertine notions of beauty, to the desire of establishing
themselves--the only way women can nse in the world--by marriage.
And this desire making mere animals of them, when they marry they
act as such children may be expected to act,--they dress, they
paint, and nickname God's creatures. Surely these weak beings are
only fit for a seraglio! Can they be expected to govern a family
with judgment, or take care of the poor babes whom they bring into
the world?
If, then, it can be fairly deduced from the present conduct of the
sex, from the prevalent fondness for pleasure which takes place of
ambition and those nobler passions that open and enlarge the soul,
that the instruction which women have hitherto received has only
tended, with the constituion of civil society, to render them
insignificant objects of desire -- mere propagators of fools! --
if it can be proved that in aiming to accomplish them, without
cultivating their understandings, they are taken out of their
sphere of duties, and made ridiculous and useless when the
short-lived bloom of beauty is over,[1] I presume that rational men
will excuse me for endeavouring to persuade them to become more
masculine and respectable.
Indeed the word masculine is only a bugbear; there is little reason
to fear that women will acquire too much courage or fortitude, for
their apparent inferiority with respect to bodily strength must
render them in some degree dependent on men in the various
relations of life; but why should it be increased by prejudices
that give a sex to virtue, and confound simple truths with sensual
reveries?
Women are, in fact, so much degraded by mistaken notions of female
excellence, that I do not mean to add a paradox when I assert that
this artificial weakness produces a propensity to tyrannise, and
gives birth to cunning, the natural opponent of strength, which
leads them to play off those contemptible infantine airs that
undermine esteem even whilst they excite desire. Let men become
more chaste and modest, and if women do not grow wiser in the same
ratio, it will be clear that they have weaker understandings. It
seems scarcely necessary to say that I now speak of the sex in
general. Many individuals have more sense than their male
relatives; and, as nothing preponderates where there is a constant
struggle for an equilibrium without it has naturally more gravity,
some women govern their husbands without degrading themselves,
because intellect will always govern.
NOTES
[1] A lively writer (I cannot recollect his name) asks what
business women turned of forty have to do in the world?
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TO
M. TALLEYRAND-PERIGORD
Late Bishop of Autun
SIR,--Having read with great pleasure a pamphlet which you have
lately published, I dedicate this volume to you--the first
dedication that I have ever written, to induce you to read it with
attention; and, because I think that you will understand me, which
I do not suppose many pert witlings will, who may ridicule the
arguments they are unable to answer. But, sir I carry my respect
for your understanding still farther; so far that I am confident
you will not throw my work aside, and hastily conclude that I am in
the wrong, because you did not view the subject in the same light
yourself. And, pardon my frankness, but I must observe, that you
treated it in too cursory a manner, contented to consider it as it
had been considered formerly, when the rights of man, not to advert
to woman, were trampled on as chimerical--I call upon you,
therefore, now to weigh what I have advanced respecting the rights
of woman and national education; and I call with the firm tone of
humanity, for my arguments, sir, are dictated by a disinterested
spirit--I plead for my sex, not for myself. Independence I have
long considered as the grand blessing of life, the basis of every
virtue; and independence I will ever secure by contracting my
wants, though I were to live on a barren heath.
It is then an affection for the whole human race that makes my pen
dart rapidly along to support what I believe to be the cause of
virtue; and the same motive leads me earnestly to wish to see woman
placed in a station in which she would advance, instead of
retarding, the progress of those glorious principles that give a
substance to morality. My opinion, indeed, respecting the rights
and duties of woman seems to flow so naturally from these simple
principles, that I think it scarcely possible but that some of the
enlarged minds who formed your admirable constitution will coincide
with me.
In France there is undoubtedly a more general diffusion of
knowledge than in any part of the European world, and I attribute
it, in a great measure, to the social intercourse which has long
subsisted between the sexes. It is true--I utter my sentiments with
freedom--that in France the very essence of sensuality has been
extracted to regale the voluptuary, and a kind of sentimental lust
has prevailed, which, together with the system of duplicity that
the whole tenor of their political and civil government taught,
have given a sinister sort of sagacity to the French character,
properly termed finesse, from which naturally flow a polish of
manners that injures the substance by hunting sincerity out of
society. And modesty, the fairest garb of virtue! has been
more-grossly insulted in France than even in England, till their
women have treated as prudish that attention to decency which
brutes instinctively observe.
Manners and morals are so nearly allied that they have often been
confounded; but, though the former should only be the natural
reflection of the latter, yet, when various causes have produced
factitious and corrupt manners, which are very early caught,
morality becomes an empty name. The personal reserve, and sacred
respect for cleanliness and delicacy in domestic life, which French
women almost despise, are the graceful pillars of modesty; but, far
from despising them, if the pure flame of patriotism have reached
their bosoms, they should labour to improve the morals of their
fellow-citizens, by teaching men, not only to respect modesty in
women, but to acquire it themselves, as the only way to merit their
esteem.
Contending for the rights of woman, my main argument is built on
this simple principle, that if she be not prepared by education to
become the companion of man, she will stop the progress of
knowledge and virtue; for truth must be common to all, or it will
be inefficacious with respect to its influence on general practice.
And how can woman be expected to co-operate unless she knows why
she ought to be virtuous? unless freedom strengthens her reason
till she comprehends her duty, and see in what manner it is
connected with her real good. If children are to be educated to
understand the true principle of patriotism, their mother must be
a patriot; and the love of mankind, from which an orderly train of
virtues spring, can only be produced by considering the moral and
civil interest of mankind; but the education and situation of woman
at present shuts her out from such investigations.
In this work I have produced many arguments, which to me were
conclusive, to prove that the prevailing notion respecting a sexual
character was subversive of morality, and I have contended, that to
render the human body and mind more perfect, chastity must more
universally prevail, and that chastity will never be respected in
the male world till the person of a woman is not, as it were,
idolised, when little virtue or sense embellish it with the grand
traces of mental beauty, or the interesting simplicity of
affection.
Consider, sir, dispassionately these observations, for a glimpse of
this truth seemed to open before you when you observed, "that to
see one-half of the human race excluded by the other from all
participation of government was a political phenomenon that,
according to abstract principles, it was impossible to explain." If
so, on what does your constitution rest? If the abstract rights of
man will bear discussion and explanation, those of woman, by a
parity of reasoning, will not shrink from the same test; though a
different opinion prevails in this country, built on the very
arguments which you use to justify the oppression of
woman--prescription.
Consider--I address you as a legislator--whether, when men contend
for their freedom, and to be allowed to judge for themselves
respecting their own happiness, it be not inconsistent and unjust
to subjugate women, even though you firmly believe that you are
acting in the manner best calculated to promote their happiness ?
Who made man the exclusive judge, if woman partake with him of the
gift of reason?
In this style argue tyrants of every denomination, from the weak
king to the weak father of a family; they are all eager to crush
reason, yet always assert that they usurp its throne only to be
useful. Do you not act a similar part when you force all women, by
denying them civil and political rights, to remain immured in their
families groping in the dark? for surely, sir, you will not assert
that a duty can be binding which is not founded on reason? If,
indeed, this be their destination, arguments may be drawn from
reason; and thus augustly supported, the more understanding women
acquire, the more they will be attached to their
duty--comprehending it--for unless they comprehend it, unless their
morals be fixed on the same immutable principle as those of man, no
authority can make them discharge it in a virtuous manner. They may
be convenient slaves, but slavery will have its constant effect,
degrading the master and the abject dependent.
But if women are to be excluded, without having a voice, from ˜
participation of the natural rights of mankind, prove first, to
ward off the charge of injustice and inconsistency, that they want
reason, else this flaw in your NEW CONSTITUTION will ever show that
man must, in some shape, act like a tyrant, and tyranny, in
whatever part of society it rears its brazen front, will ever
undermine morality.
I have repeatedly asserted, and produced what appeared to me
irrefragable arguments drawn from matters of fact to prove my
assertion, that women cannot by force be confined to domestic
concerns; for they will, however ignorant, inter- meddle with more
weighty affairs, neglecting private duties only to disturb, by
cunning tricks, the orderly plans of reason which rise above their
comprehension.
Besides, whilst they are only made to acquire personal
accomplishments, men will seek for pleasure in variety, and
faithless husbands will make faithless wives; such ignorant beings,
indeed, will be very excusable when, not taught to respect public
good, nor allowed any civil rights, they attempt to do themselves
justice by retaliation.
The box of mischief thus opened in society, what is to preserve
private virtue, the only security of public freedom and universal
happiness?
Let there be then no coercion established in society, and the
common law of gravity prevailing, the sexes will fall into their
proper places. And now that more equitable laws are forming your
citizens, marriage may become more sacred; your young men may
choose wives from motives of affection, and your maidens allow love
to root out vanity.
The father of a family will not then weaken his constitution and
debase his sentiments by visiting the harlot, nor forget, in
obeying the call of appetite, the purpose for which it was
implanted. And the mother will not neglect her children to practise
the arts of coquetry, when sense and modesty secure her the
friendship of her husband.
But, till men become attentive to the duty of a father, it is vain
to expect women to spend that time in their nursery which they, "
wise in their generation," choose to spend at their glass; for this
exertion of cunning is only an instinct of nature to enable them to
obtain indirectly a little of that power of which they are unjustly
denied a share; for, if women are not permitted to enjoy legitimate
rights, they will render both men and themselves vicious to obtain
illicit privileges.
I wish, sir, to set some investigations of this kind afloat in
France; and should they lead to a confirmation of my principles
when your constitution is revised, the Rights of Woman may be
respected, if it be fully proved that reason calls for this
respect, and loudly demands JUSTICE for one-half of the human race.
I am, Sir,
Yours respectfully,
M. W.
A VINDICATION OF THE
RIGHTS OF WOMAN
BY
MARY WOLLSTONECRAFT
NOTE
When I began to write this work, I divided it into three parts,
supposing that one volume would contain a full discussion of the
arguments which seemed to me to rise naturally from a few simple
principles; but fresh illustrations occurring as I advanced, I now
present only the first part to the public.
Many subjects, however, which I have cursorily alluded to, call for
particular investigation, especially the laws relative to women,
and the consideration of their peculiar duties. These will furnish
ample matter for a second volume, which in due time will be
published, to elucidate some of the sentiments and complete many of
the sketches begun in the first.
CHAPTER I
THE RIGHTS AND INVOLVED DUTIES OF MANKIND CONSIDERED
In the present state of society it appears necessary to go back to
first principles in search of the most simple truths, and to
dispute with some prevailing prejudice every inch of ground. To
clear my way, I must be allowed to ask some plain questions, and
the answers will probably appear as unequivocal as the axioms on
which reasoning is built; though, when entangled with various
motives of action, they are formally contradicted, either by the
words or conduct of men.
In what does man's pre-eminence over the brute creation consist?
The answer is as clear as that a half is less than the whole, in
Reason.
What acquirement exalts one being above another? Virtue, we
spontaneously reply.
For what purpose were the passions implanted? That man by
struggling with them might attain a degree of knowledge denied to
the brutes, whispers Experience.
Consequently the perfection of our nature and capability of
happiness must be estimated by the degree of reason, virtue, and
knowledge, that distinguish the individual, and direct the laws
which bind society: and that from the exercise of reason, knowledge
and virtue naturally flow, is equally undeniable, if mankind be
viewed collectively.
The rights and duties of man thus simplified, it seems almost
impertinent to attempt to illustrate truths that appear so
incontrovertible; yet such deeply rooted prejudices have clouded
reason, and such spurious qualities have assumed the name of
virtues, that it is necessary to pursue the course of reason as it
has been perplexed and involved in error, by various adventitious
circumstances, comparing the simple axiom with casual deviations.
Men, in general, seem to employ their reason to justify prejudices,
which they have imbibed, they can scarcely trace how, rather than
to root them out. The mind must be strong that resolutely forms its
own principles; for a kind of intellectual cowardice prevails which
makes many men shrink from the task, or only do it by halves. Yet
the imperfect conclusions thus drawn, are frequently very
plausible, because they are built on partial experience, on just,
though narrow, views.
Going back to first principles, vice skulks, with all its native
deformity, from close investigation; but a set of shallow reasoners
are always exclaiming that these arguments prove too much, and that
a measure rotten at the core may be expedient. Thus expediency is
continually contrasted with simple principles, till truth is lost
in a mist of words, virtue, in forms, and knowledge rendered a
sounding nothing, by the specious prejudices that assume its name.
That the society is formed in the wisest manner, whose constitution
is founded on the nature of man, strikes, in the abstract, every
thinking being so forcibly, that it looks like presumption to
endeavour to bring forward proofs; though proof must be brought, or
the strong hold of prescription will never be forced by reason; yet
to urge prescription as an argument to justify the depriving men
(or women) of their natural rights, is one of the absurd sophisms
which daily insult common sense.
The civilisation of the bulk of the people of Europe is very
partial; nay, it may be made a question, whether they have acquired
any virtues in exchange for innocence, equivalent to the misery
produced by the vices that have been plastered over unsightly
ignorance, and the freedom which has been bartered for splendid
slavery. The desire of dazzling by riches, the most certain
pre-eminence that man can obtain, the pleasure of commanding
flattering sycophants, and many other complicated low calculations
of doting self-love, have all contributed to overwhelm the mass of
mankind, and make liberty a convenient handle for mock patriotism.
For whilst rank and titles are held of the utmost importance,
before which Genius "must hide its diminished head," it is, with a
few exceptions, very unfortunate for a nation when a man of
abilities, without rank or property, pushes himself forward to
notice. Alas ! what unheard-of misery have thousands suffered to
purchase a cardinal's hat for an intriguing obscure adventurer, who
longed to be ranked with princes, or lord it over them by seizing
the triple crown!
Such, indeed, has been the wretchedness that has flowed from
hereditary honours, riches, and monarchy, that men of lively
sensibility have almost uttered blasphemy in order to justify the
dispensations of Providence. Man has been held out as independent
of His power who made him, or as a lawless planet darting from its
orbit to steal the celestial fire of reason; and the vengeance of
Heaven, lurking in the subtile flame, like Pandora's pent-up
mischiefs, sufficiently punished his temerity, by introducing evil
into the world.
Impressed by this view of the misery and disorder which pervaded
society, and fatigued with jostling against artificial fools,
Rousseau became enamoured of solitude, and, being at the same time
an optimist, he labours with uncommon eloquence to prove that man
was naturally a solitary animal. Misled by his respect for the
goodness of God, who certainly--for what man of sense and feeling
can doubt it !--gave life only to communicate happiness, he
considers evil as positive, and the work of man; not aware that he
was exalting one at- tribute at the expense of another, equally
necessary to divine perfection.
Reared on a false hypothesis, his arguments in favour of a state of
nature are plausible, but unsound. I say unsound; for to assert
that B state of nature is preferable to civilisation, in all its
possible perfection, is, in other words, to arraign supreme wisdom;
and the paradoxical exclamation, that God has made all things
right, and that error has been introduced by the creature, whom He
formed, knowing what He formed, is as unphilosophical as impious.
When that wise Being who created us and placed us here, saw the
fair idea, He willed, by allowing it to be so, that the passions
should unfold our reason, because He could see that present evil
would produce future good. Could the helpless creature whom He
called from nothing break loose from His providence, and boldly
learn to know good by practising evil, without His permission ? No.
How could that energetic advocate for immortality argue so
inconsistently ? Had mankind remained for ever in the brutal state
of nature, which even his magic pen cannot paint as a state in
which a single virtue took root, it would have been clear, though
not to the sensitive unreflecting wanderer, that man was born to
run the circle of life and death, and adorn God's garden for some
purpose which could not easily be reconciled with His attributes.
But if, to crown the whole, there were to be rational creatures
produced, allowed to rise in excellence by the exercise of powers
implanted for that purpose; if benignity itself thought fit to call
into existence a creature above the brutes,[1] who could think and
improve himself, why should that inestimable gift, for a gift it
was, if man was so created, as to have a capacity to rise above the
state in which sensation produced brutal ease, be called, in direct
terms, a curse? A curse it might be reckoned, if the whole of our
existence were bounded by our continuance in this world; for why
should the gracious fountain of life give us passions, and the
power of reflecting, only to imbitter our days and inspire us with
mistaken notions of dignity? Why should He lead us from love of
ourselves to the sublime emotions which the discovery of His wisdom
and goodness excites, if these feelings were not set in motion to
improve our nature, of which they make a part,[2] and render us
capable of enjoying a more godlike portion of happiness? Firmly
persuaded that no evil exists in the world that God did not design
to take place, I build my belief on the perfection of God.
Rousseau exerts himself to prove that all was right originally:
a crowd of authors that all is now right: and I, that all will be
right.
But, true to his first position, next to a state of nature,
Rousseau celebrates barbarism, and apostrophising the shade of
Fabricius, he forgets that, in conquering the world, the Romans
never dreamed of establishing their own liberty on a firm basis, or
of extending the reign of virtue. Eager to support his system, he
stigmatises, as vicious, every effort of genius; and, uttering the
apotheosis of savage virtues, he exalts those to demi-gods, who
were scarcely human--the brutal Spartans, who, in defiance of
justice and gratitude, sacrificed, in cold blood, the slaves who
had shown themselves heroes to rescue their oppressors.
Disgusted with artificial manners and virtues, the citizen of
Geneva, instead of properly sifting the subject, threw away the
wheat with the chaff, without waiting to inquire whether the evils
which his ardent soul turned from indignantly, were the consequence
of civilisation or the vestiges of barbarism. He saw vice trampling
on virtue, and the semblance of goodness taking the place of the
reality; he saw talents bent by power to sinister purposes, and
never thought of tracing the gigantic mischief up to arbitrary
power, up to the hereditary distinctions that clash with the mental
superiority that naturally raises a man above his fellows. He did
not perceive that regal power, in a few generations, introduces
idiotism into the noble stem, and holds out baits to render
thousands idle and vicious.
Nothing can set the regal character in a more contemptible point of
view, than the various crimes that have elevated men to the supreme
dignity. Vile intrigues, unnatural crimes, and every vice that
degrades our nature, have been the steps to this distinguished
eminence; yet millions of men have supinely allowed the nerveless
limbs of the posterity of such rapacious prowlers to rest quietly
on their ensanguined thrones.[3]
What but a pestilential vapour can hover over society when its
chief director is only instructed in the invention of crimes, or
the stupid routine of childish ceremonies? Will men never be
wise?--will they never cease to expect corn from tares, and figs
from thistles?
It is impossible for any man, when the most favourable
circumstances concur, to acquire sufficient knowledge and strength
of mind to discharge the duties of a king, entrusted with
uncontrolled power; how then must they be violated when his very
elevation is an insuperable bar to the attainment of either wisdom
or virtue, when all the feelings of a man are stifled by flattery,
and reflection shut out by pleasure! Sure it is madness to make the
fate of thousands depend on the caprice of a weak fellow-creature,
whose very station sinks him necessarily below the meanest of his
subjects ! But one power should not be thrown down to exalt
another--for all power inebriates weak man; and its abuse proves
that the more equality there is established among men, the more
virtue and happiness will reign in society. But this and any
similar maxim deduced from simple reason, raises an outcry--the
Church or the State is in danger, if faith in the wisdom of
antiquity is not implicit; and they who, roused by the sight of
human calamity, dare to attack human authority, are reviled as
despisers of God, and enemies of man. These are bitter calumnies,
yet they reached one of the best of men,[4] whose ashes still
preach
peace, and whose memory demands a respectful pause, when subjects
are discussed that lay so near his heart.
After attacking the sacred majesty of kings, I shall scarcely
excite surprise by adding my firm persuasion that every profession,
in which great subordination of rank constitutes its power, is
highly injurious to morality.
A standing army, for instance, is incompatible with freedom;
because subordination and rigour are the very sinews of military
discipline; and despotism is necessary to give vigour to
enterprises that one will directs. A spirit inspired by romantic
notions of honour, a kind of morality founded on the fashion of the
age, can only be felt by a few officers, whilst the main body must
be moved by command, like the waves of the sea; for the strong wind
of authority pushes the crowd of subalterns forward, they scarcely
know or care why, with headlong fury.
Besides, nothing can be so prejudicial to the morals of the
inhabitants of country towns as the occasional residence of a set
of idle superficial young men, whose only occupation is gallantry,
and whose polished manners render vice more dangerous, by
concealing its deformity under gay ornamental drapery. An air of
fashion, which is but a badge of slavery, and proves that the soul
has not a strong individual character, awes simple country people
into an imitation of the vices, when they cannot catch the slippery
graces, of politeness. Every corps is a chair; of despots, who,
submitting and tyrannising without exercising their reason, become
dead-weights of vice and folly on the community. A man of rank or
fortune, sure of rising by interest, has nothing to do but to
pursue some extravagant freak; whilst the needy gentleman, who is
to rise, as the phrase turns, by his merit, becomes a servile
parasite or vile pander.
Sailors, the naval gentlemen, come under the same description, only
their vices assume a different and a grosser cast. They are more
positively indolent, when not discharging the ceremonials of their
station; whilst the insignificant fluttering of soldiers may be
termed active idleness. More confined to the society of men, the
former acquire a fondness for humour and mischievous tricks; whilst
the latter, mixing frequently with well-bred women, catch a
sentimental cant. But mind is equally out of the question, whether
they indulge the horse- laugh, or polite simper.
May I be allowed to extend the comparison to a profession where
more mind is certainly to be found,--for the clergy have superior
opportunities of improvement, though subordination almost equally
cramps their faculties? The blind submission imposed at college to
forms of belief serves as a novitiate to the curate, who must
obsequiously respect the opinion of his rector or patron, if he
mean to rise in his profession. Perhaps there cannot be a more
forcible contrast than between the servile dependent gait of a poor
curate and the courtly mien of a bishop. And the respect and
contempt they inspire, render the discharge of their separate
functions equally useless.
It is of great importance to observe that the character of every
man is, in some degree, formed by his profession. A man of sense
may only have a cast of countenance that wears off as you trace his
individuality, whilst the weak, common man has scarcely ever any
character, but what belongs to the body; at least, all his opinions
have been so steeped in the vat consecrated by authority, that the
faint spirit which the grape of his own vine yields, cannot be
distinguished.
Society, therefore, as it becomes more enlightened, should be very
careful not to establish bodies of men who must necessarily be made
foolish or vicious by the very constitution of their profession.
In the infancy of society, when men were just emerging out of
barbarism, chiefs and priests, touching the most powerful springs
of savage conduct, hope and fear, must have had unbounded sway. An
aristocracy, of course, is naturally the first form of government.
But, clashing interests soon losing their equipoise, a monarchy and
hierarchy break out of the confusion of ambitious struggles, and
the foundation of both is secured by feudal tenures. This appears
to be the origin of monarchical and priestly power, and the dawn of
civilisation. But such combustible materials cannot long be pent
up; and, getting vent in foreign wars and intestine insurrections,
the people acquire some power in the tumult, which obliges their
rulers to gloss over their oppression with a show of right. Thus,
as wars, agriculture, commerce, and literature, expand the mind,
despots are compelled to make covert corruption hold fast the power
which was formerly snatched by open force.[5] And this baneful
lurking
gangrene is most quickly spread by luxury and superstition, the
sure dregs of ambition. The indolent puppet of a court first
becomes a luxurious monster, or fastidious sensualist, and then
makes the contagion which his unnatural state spread, the
instrument of tyranny.
It is the pestiferous purple which renders the progress of
civilisation a curse, and warps the understanding, till men of
sensibility doubt whether the expansion of intellect produces a
greater portion of happiness or misery. But the nature of the
poison points out the antidote; and had Rousseau mounted one step
higher in his investigation, or could his eye have pierced through
the foggy atmosphere, which he almost disdained to breathe, his
active mind would have darted forward to contemplate the perfection
of man in the establishment of true civilisation, instead of taking
his ferocious flight back to the night of sensual ignorance.
NOTES
[1] Contrary to the opinion of the anatomists, who argye by
analogy from the formation of the teeth, stomach, and intestines,
Rousseau will not allow a man to be a carniverous animal. And,
carried away from nature by a love of system, he disputes whether
man be a gregarious animal, though the long and helpless state of
infancy seems to point him out as particularly impelled to pair,
the first step towards herding.
[2] What would you say to a mechanic whom you had desired to make
a watch to point out the hour of the day, if, to show his
ingenuity, he added wheels to make it a repeater, etc., that
perplexed the simple mechanism; should he urge - to excuse himself
- had you not touched a certain spring, you would have known
nothing of the matter, and that he should have amused himself by
making an experiment without doing you any harm, would you not
retort fairly upon him, bu insisting that if he had not added those
needless wheels and springs, the accident could not have happened?
[3] Could there be a greater insult offered to the rights of man
than the beds of justice in France, when an infant was made the
organ of the detestable Dubois?
[4] Dr. Price.
[5] Men of abilities scatter seeds that grow up and have a great
influence on the forming opinion; and when once the public opinion
preponderates, through the exertion of reason, the overthrow of
arbitrary power is not very distant.
CHAPTER II
THE PREVAILING OPINION OF A SEXUAL CHARACTER DISCUSSED
To account for, and excuse the tyranny of man, many ingenious
arguments have been brought forward to prove, that the two sexes,
in the acquirement of virtue, ought to aim at attaining a very
different character; or, to speak explicitly, women are not allowed
to have sufficient strength of mind to acquire what really deserves
the name of virtue. Yet it should seem, allowing them to have
souls, that there is but one way appointed by Providence to lead
mankind to either virtue or happiness.
If then women are not a swarm of ephemeron triflers, why should
they be kept in ignorance under the specious name of innocence? Men
complain, and with reason, of the follies and caprices of our sex,
when they do not keenly satirise our headstrong passions and
grovelling vices. Behold, I should answer, the natural effect of
ignorance ! The mind will ever be unstable that has only prejudices
to rest on, and the current will run with destructive fury when
there are no barriers to break its force. Women are told from their
infancy, and taught by the example of their mothers, that a little
knowledge of human weakness, justly termed cunning, softness of
temper, outward obedience, and a scrupulous attention to a puerile
kind of propriety, will obtain for them the protection of man; and
should they be beautiful, everything else is needless, for at least
twenty years of their lives.
Thus Milton describes our first frail mother; though when he tells
us that women are formed for softness and sweet attractive grace,
I cannot comprehend his meaning, unless, in the true Mahometan
strain, he meant to deprive us of souls, and insinuate that we were
beings only designed by sweet attractive grace, and docile blind
obedience, to gratify the senses of man when he can no longer soar
on the wing of contemplation.
How grossly do they insult us who thus advise us only to render
ourselves gentle, domestic brutes ! For instance, the winning
softness so warmly and frequently recommended, that governs by
obeying. What childish expressions, and how insignificant is the
being--can it be an immortal one?--who will condescend to govern by
such sinister methods? "Certainly," says Lord Bacon, "man is of kin
to the beasts by his body; and if he be not of kin to God by his
spirit, he is a base and ignoble creature!" Men, indeed, appear to
me to act in a very unphilosophical manner, when they try to secure
the good con- duct of women by attempting to keep them always in a
state of childhood. Rousseau was more consistent when he wished to
stop the progress of reason in both sexes, for if men eat of the
tree of knowledge, women will come in for a taste; but, from the
imperfect cultivation which their understandings now receive, they
only attain a knowledge of evil. Children, I grant, should be
innocent; but when the epithet is applied to men, or women, it is
but a civil term for weakness. For if it be allowed that women were
destined by Providence to acquire human virtues, and, by the
exercise of their understandings, that stability of character which
is the firmest ground to rest our future hopes upon, they must be
permitted to turn to the fountain of light, and not forced to shape
their course by the twinkling of a mere satellite. Milton, I grant,
was of a very different opinion; for he only bends to the
indefeasible right of beauty, though it would be difficult to
render two passages which I now mean to contrast, consistent. But
into similar inconsistencies are great men often led by their
senses:
To whom thus Eve with perfect beauty adorn'd
My author and disposer, what thou bid'st
Unargued I obey; so God ordains.
God is thy law thou mine: to know no more
Is woman's happiest knowledge and her praise.
These are exactly the arguments that I have used to children; but
I have added, your reason is now gaining strength, and, till it
arrives at some degree of maturity, you must look up to me for
advice,--then you ought to think, and only rely on God. Yet in the
following lines Milton seems to coincide with me, when he makes
Adam thus expostulate with his Maker:
Hast Thou not made me here Thy substitute,
And these inferior far beneath me set ?
Among equals what society
Can sort, what harmony or true delight ?
Which must be mutual, in proportion due
Given and received; but in disparity
The one intense, the other still remiss
Cannot well suit with either, but soon prove
Tedious alike: of fellowship I speak
Such as I seek fit to participate
All rational delight--
In treating therefore of the manners of women, let us, disregarding
sensual arguments, trace what we should endeavour to make them in
order to co-operate, if the expression be not too bold, with the
Supreme Being. By individual education, I mean, for the sense of
the word is not precisely defined, such an attention to a child as
will slowly sharpen the senses, form the temper, regulate the
passions as they begin to ferment, and set the understanding to
work before the body arrives at maturity; so that the man may only
have to proceed, not to begin, the important task of learning to
think and reason.
To prevent any misconstruction, I must add, that I do not believe
that a private education can work the wonders which some sanguine
writers have attributed to it. Men and women must be educated, in
a great degree, by the opinions and manners of the society they
live in. In every age there has been a stream of popular opinion
that has carried all before it, and given a family character, as it
were, to the century. It may then fairly be inferred, that, till
society be differently constituted, much cannot be expected from
education. It is, however, sufficient for my present purpose to
assert that, whatever effect circumstances have on the abilities,
every being may become virtuous by the exercise of its own reason;
for if but one being was created with vicious inclinations, that is
positively bad, what can save us from atheism? or if we worship a
God, is not that God a devil?
Consequently, the most perfect education, in my opinion, is such an
exercise of the understanding as is best calculated to strengthen
the body and form the heart. Or, in other words, to enable the
individual to attain such habits of virtue as will render it
independent. In fact, it is a farce to call any being virtuous
whose virtues do not result from the exercise of its own reason.
This was Rousseau's opinion respecting men; I extend it to women,
and confidently assert that they have been drawn out of their
sphere by false refinement, and not by an endeavour to acquire
masculine qualities. Still the regal homage which they receive is
so intoxicating, that until the manners of the times are changed,
and formed on more reasonable principles, it may be impossible to
convince them that the illegitimate power which they obtain by
degrading themselves is a curse, and that they must return to
nature and equality if they wish to secure the placid satisfaction
that unsophisticated affections impart. But for this epoch we must
wait--wait perhaps till kings and nobles, enlightened by reason,
and, preferring the real dignity of man to childish state, throw
off their gaudy hereditary trappings; and if then women do not
resign the arbitrary power of beauty--they will prove that they
have less mind than man. XXXXX I may be accused of arrogance; still
I must declare what I firmly believe, that all the writers who have
written on the subject of female education and manners, from
Rousseau to Dr. Gregory, have contributed to render women more
artificial, weak characters, than they would otherwise have been;
and consequently, more useless members of society. I might have
expressed this conviction in a lower key, but I am afraid it would
have been the whine of affectation, and not the faithful expression
of my feelings, of the clear result which experience and reflection
have led me to draw. When I come to that division of the subject,
I shall advert to the passages that I more particularly disapprove
of, in the works of the authors I have just alluded to; but it is
first necessary to observe that my objection extends to the whole
purport of those books, which tend, in my opinion, to degrade
one-half of the human species, and render women pleasing at the
expense of every solid virtue.
Though, to reason on Rousseau's ground, if man did attain a degree
of perfection of mind when his body arrived at maturity, it might
be proper, in order to make a man and his wife one, that she should
rely entirely on his understanding; and the graceful ivy, clasping
the oak that supported it, would form a whole in which strength and
beauty would be equally conspicuous. But, alas ! husbands, as well
as their helpmates, are often only overgrown children,--nay, thanks
to early debauchery, scarcely men in their outward form,--and if
the blind lead the blind, one need not come from heaven to tell us
the consequence.
Many are the causes that, in the present corrupt state of society,
contribute to enslave women by cramping their under- standings and
sharpening their senses. One, perhaps, that silently does more
mischief than all the rest, is their disregard of order.
To do everything in an orderly manner is a most important precept,
which women, who, generally speaking, receive only a disorderly
kind of education, seldom attend to with that degree of exactness
that men, who from their infancy are broken into method, observe.
This negligent kind of guesswork--for what other epithet can be
used to point out the random exertions of a sort of instinctive
common sense never brought to the test of reason?--prevents their
generalising matters of fact; so they do to-day what they did
yesterday, merely because they did it yesterday.
This contempt of the understanding in early life has more baneful
consequences than is commonly supposed; for the little knowledge
which women of strong minds attain is, from various circumstances,
of a more desultory kind than the knowledge of men, and it is
acquired more by sheer observations on real life than from
comparing what has been individually observed with the results of
experience generalised by speculation. Led by their dependent
situation and domestic employments more into society, what they
learn is rather by snatches; and as learning is with them in
general only a secondary thing, they do not pursue any one branch
with that persevering ardour necessary to give vigour to the
faculties and clearness to the judgment. In the present state of
society a little learning is required to support the character of
a gentleman, and boys are obliged to submit to a few years of
discipline. But in the education of women, the cultivation of the
understanding is always subordinate to the acquirement of some
corporeal accomplishment. Even when enervated by confinement and
false notions of modesty, the body is prevented from attaining that
grace and beauty which relaxed half-formed limbs never exhibit.
Besides, in youth their faculties are not brought forward by
emulation; and having no serious scientific study, if they have
natural sagacity, it is turned too soon on life and manners. They
dwell on effects and modifications, without tracing them back to
causes; and complicated rules to adjust behaviour are a weak
substitute for simple principles.
As a proof that education gives this appearance of weakness to
females, we may instance the example of military men, who are, like
them, sent into the world before their minds have been stored with
knowledge, or fortified by principles. The consequences are
similar; soldiers acquire a little superficial knowledge, snatched
from the muddy current of conversation, and from continually mixing
with society, they gain what is termed a knowledge of the world;
and this acquaintance with manners and customs has frequently been
confounded with a knowledge of the human heart. But can the crude
fruit of casual observation, never brought to the test of judgment,
formed by comparing speculation and experience, deserve such a
distinction ? Soldiers, as well as women, practise the minor
virtues with punctilious politeness. Where is then the sexual
difference, when the education has been the same? All the
difference that I can discern arises from the superior advantage of
liberty which enables the former to see more of life.
It is wandering from my present subject, perhaps, to make a
political remark; but as it was produced naturally by the train of
my reflections, I shall not pass it silently over.
Standing armies can never consist of resolute robust men; they may
be well-disciplined machines, but they will seldom contain men
under the influence of strong passions, or with very vigorous
faculties; and as for any depth of understanding, I will venture to
affirm that it is as rarely to be found in the army as amongst
women. And the cause, I maintain, is the same. It may be further
observed that officers are also particularly attentive to their
persons, fond of dancing, crowded rooms, adventures, and
ridicule.[1] Like the fair sex, the business of their lives is
gallantry; they were taught to please, and they only live to
please. Yet they do not lose their rank in the distinction of
sexes, for they are still reckoned superior to women, though in
what their superiority consists, beyond what I have just mentioned,
it is difficult to discover.
The great misfortune is this, that they both acquire manners before
morals, and a knowledge of life before they have from reflection
any acquaintance with the grand ideal outline of human nature. The
consequence is natural. Satisfied with common nature, they become
a prey to prejudices, and taking all their opinions on credit, they
blindly submit to authority. So that if they have any sense, it is
a kind of instinctive glance that catches proportions, and decides
with respect to manners, but fails when arguments are to be pursued
below the surface, or opinions analysed.
May not the same remark be applied to women? Nay, the argument may
be carried still further, for they are both thrown out of a useful
station by the unnatural distinctions established in civilised
life. Riches and hereditary honours have made cyphers of women to
give consequence to the numerical figure; and idleness has produced
a mixture of gallantry and despotism into society, which leads the
very men who are the slaves of their mistresses to tyrannise over
their sisters, wives, and daughters. This is only keeping them in
rank and file, it is true. Strengthen the female mind by enlarging
it, and there will be an end to blind obedience; but as blind
obedience is ever sought for by power, tyrants and sensualists are
in the right endeavour to keep woman in the dark, because only
want slaves, and the latter a plaything. The sensualist, indeed,
has been the most dangerous of tyrants, and women have been duped
by their lovers, as princes by their ministers, whilst dreaming
that they reigned over them.
I now principally allude to Rousseau, for his character of Sophia
is undoubtedly a captivating one, though it appears to me grossly
unnatural. However, it is not the superstructure, but the
foundation of her character, the principles on which her education
was built, that I mean to attack; nay, warmly as I admire the
genius of that able writer, whose opinions I shall often have
occasion to cite, indignation always takes place of admiration, and
the rigid frown of insulted virtue effaces the smile of complacency
which his eloquent periods are wont to raise when I read his
voluptuous reveries. Is this the man who, in his ardour for virtue,
would banish all the soft arts of peace, and almost carry us back
to Spartan discipline? Is this the man who delights to paint the
useful struggles of passion, the triumphs of good dispositions, and
the heroic flights which carry the glowing soul out of itself? How
are these mighty sentiments lowered when he describes the pretty
foot and enticing airs of his little favourite ! But for the
present I waive the subject, and instead of severely reprehending
the transient effusions of overweening sensibility, I shall only
observe that whoever has cast a benevolent eye on society must
often have been gratified by the sight of humble mutual love not
dignified by sentiment, or strengthened by a union in intellectual
pursuits. The domestic trifles of the day have afforded matters for
cheerful converse, and innocent caresses have softened toils which
did not require great exercise of mind or stretch of thought; yet
has not the sight of this moderate felicity excited more tenderness
than respect ?--an emotion similar to what we feel when children
are playing or animals sporting;[2] whilst the contemplation of the
noble struggles of suffering merit has raised admiration, and
carried our thoughts to that world where sensation will give place
to reason.
Women are therefore to be considered either as moral beings, or so
weak that they must be entirely subjected to the superior faculties
of men.
Let us examine this question. Rousseau declares that a woman should
never for a moment feel herself independent, that she should be
governed by fear to exercise her natural cunning, and made a
coquettish slave in order to render her a more alluring object of
desire, a sweeter companion to man, whenever he chooses to relax
himself. He carries the arguments, which he pretends to draw from
the indications of nature, still further, and insinuates that truth
and fortitude, the corner-stones of all human virtue, should be
cultivated with certain restrictions, because, with respect to the
female character, obedience is the grand lesson which ought to be
impressed with unrelenting rigour.
What nonsense ! When will a great man arise with sufficient
strength of mind to puff away the fumes which pride and sensuality
have thus spread over the subject? If women are by nature inferior
to men, their virtues must be the same in quality, if not in
degree, or virtue is a relative idea; consequently their conduct
should be founded on the same principles, and have the same aim.
Connected with man as daughters, wives, and mothers, their moral
character may be estimated by their manner of fulfilling those
simple duties; but the end, the grand end, of their exertions
should be to unfold their own faculties, and acquire the dignity of
conscious virtue. They may try to render their road pleasant; but
ought never to forget, in common with man, that life yields not the
felicity which can satisfy an immortal soul. I do not mean to
insinuate that either sex should be so lost in abstract reflections
or distant views as to forget the affections and duties that lie
before them, and are, in truth, the means appointed to produce the
fruit of life; on the contrary, I would warmly recommend them, even
while I assert, that they afford most satisfaction when they are
considered in their true sober light.
Probably the prevailing opinion that woman was created for man, may
have taken its rise from Moses' poetical story; yet as very few, it
is presumed, who have bestowed any serious thought on the subject
ever supposed that Eve was, literally speaking, one of Adam's ribs,
the deduction must be allowed to fall to the ground, or only be so
far admitted as it proves that man, from the remotest antiquity,
found it convenient to exert his strength to subjugate his
companion, and his invention to show that she ought to have her
neck bent under the yoke, because the whole creation was only
created for his convenience or pleasure.
Let it not be concluded that I wish to invert the order of things.
I have already granted that, from the constitution of their bodies,
men seemed to be designed by Providence to attain a greater degree
of virtue. I speak collectively of the whole sex; but I see not the
shadow of a reason to conclude that their virtues should differ in
respect to their nature. In fact, how can they, if virtue has only
one eternal standard? I must therefore, if I reason
consequentially, as strenuously maintain that they have the same
simple direction as that there is a God.
It follows then that cunning should not be opposed to wisdom,
little cares to great exertions, or insipid softness, varnished
over with the name of gentleness, to that fortitude which grand
views alone can inspire.
I shall be told that woman would then lose many of her peculiar
graces, and the opinion of a well-known poet might be quoted to
refute my unqualified assertion. For Pope has said in the name of
the whole male sex:
Yet ne'er so sure our passion to create,
As when she touch'd the brink of all we hate.
In what light this sally places men and women I shall leave to the
judicious to determine. Meanwhile, I shall content myself with
observing, that I cannot discover why, unless they are mortal,
females should always be degraded by being made subservient to love
or lust.
To speak disrespectfully of love is, I know, high treason against
sentiment and fine feelings; but I wish to speak the simple
language of truth, and rather to address the head than the heart.
To endeavour to reason love out of the world would be to
out-Quixote Cervantes, and equally offend against common sense; but
an endeavour to restrain this tumultuous passion, and to prove that
it should not be allowed to dethrone superior powers, or to usurp
the sceptre which the understanding should very coolly wield,
appears less wild.
Youth is the season for love in both sexes; but in those days of
thoughtless enjoyment provision should be made for the more
important years of life, when reflection takes place of sensation.
But Rousseau, and most of the male writers who have followed his
steps, have warmly inculcated that the whole tendency of female
education ought to be directed to one point--to render them
pleasing.
Let me reason with the supporters of this opinion who have any
knowledge of human nature. Do they imagine that marriage can
eradicate the habitude of life? The woman who has only been taught
to please will soon find that her charms are oblique sunbeams, and
that they cannot have much effect on her husband's heart when they
are seen every day, when the summer is passed and gone. Will she
then have sufficient native energy to look into herself for
comfort, and cultivate her dormant faculties? or is it not more
rational to expect that she will try to please other men, and, in
the emotions raised by the expectation of new conquests, endeavour
to forget the mortification her love or pride has received? When
the husband ceases to be a lover, and the time will inevitably
come, her desire of pleasing will then grow languid, or become a
spring of bitterness; and love, perhaps, the most evanescent of all
passions, gives place to jealousy or vanity.
I now speak of women who are restrained by principle or prejudice.
Such women, though they would shrink from an intrigue with real
abhorrence, yet, nevertheless, wish to be convinced by the homage
of gallantry that they are cruelly neglected by their husbands; or,
days and weeks are spent in dreaming of the happiness enjoyed by
congenial souls, till their health is undermined and their spirits
broken by discontent. How then can the great art of pleasing be
such a necessary study? it is only useful to a mistress. The chaste
wife and serious mother should only consider her power to please as
the polish of her virtues, and the affection of her husband as one
of the comforts that render her task less difficult, and her life
happier. But, whether she be loved or neglected, her first wish
should be to make herself respectable, and not to rely for all her
happiness on a being subject to like infirmities with herself.
The worthy Dr. Gregory fell into a similar error. I respect his
heart, but entirely disapprove of his celebrated Legacy to his
Daughters.
He advises them to cultivate a fondness for dress, because a
fondness for dress, he asserts, is natural to them. I am unable to
comprehend what either he or Rousseau mean when they frequently use
this indefinite term. If they told us that in a pre-existent state
the soul was fond of dress, and brought this inclination with it
into a new body, I should listen to them with a half-smile, as I
often do when I hear a rant about innate elegance. But if he only
meant to say that the exercise of the faculties will produce this
fondness, I deny it. It is not natural; but arises, like false
ambition in men, from a love of power.
Dr. Gregory goes much further; he actually recommends
dissimulation, and advises an innocent girl to give the lie to her
feelings, and not dance with spirit, when gaiety of heart would
make her feet eloquent without making her gestures immodest. In the
name of truth and common sense, why should not one woman
acknowledge that she can take more exercise than another? or, in
other words, that she has a sound constitution; and why, to damp
innocent vivacity, is she darkly to be told that men will draw
conclusions which she little thinks of? Let the libertine draw what
inference he pleases; but, I hope, that no sensible mother will
restrain the natural frankness of youth by instilling such indecent
cautions. out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh; and
a wiser than Solomon hath said that the heart should be made clean,
and not trivial ceremonies observed, which it is not very difficult
to fulfil with scrupulous exactness when vice reigns in the heart.
Women ought to endeavour to purify their heart; but can they do so
when their uncultivated understandings make them entirely dependent
on their senses for employment and amusement, when no noble
pursuits set them above the little vanities of the day, or enables
them to curb the wild emotions that agitate a reed, over which
every passing breeze has power? To gain the affections of a
virtuous man, is affectation necessary? Nature has given woman a
weaker frame than man; but, to ensure her husband's affections,
must a wife, who, by the exercise of her mind and body whilst she
was discharging the duties of a daughter, wife, and mother, has
allowed her constitution to retain its natural strength, and her
nerves a healthy tone,--is she, I say, to condescend to use art,
and feign a sickly delicacy, in order to secure her husband's
affection? Weakness may excite tenderness, and gratify the arrogant
pride of man; but the lordly caresses of a protector will not
gratify a noble mind that pants for and deserves to be respected.
Fondness is a poor substitute for friendship!
In a seraglio, I grant, that all these arts are necessary; the
epicure must have his palate tickled, or he will sink into apathy;
but have women so little ambition as to be satisfied with such a
condition? Can they supinely dream life away in the lap of
pleasure, or the languor of weariness, rather than assert their
claim to pursue reasonable pleasures, and render themselves
conspicuous by practising the virtues which dignify mankind? Surely
she- has not an immortal soul who can loiter life away merely
employed to adorn her person, that she may amuse the languid hours,
and soften the cares of a fellow-creature who is willing to be
enlivened by her smiles and tricks, when the serious business of
life is over.
Besides, the woman who strengthens her body and exercises her mind
will, by managing her family and practising various virtues, become
the friend, and not the humble dependent of her husband; and if
she, by possessing such substantial qualities, merit his regard,
she will not find it necessary to conceal her affection, nor to
pretend to an unnatural coldness of constitution to excite her
husband's passions. In fact, if we revert to history, we shall find
that the women who have distinguished themselves have neither been
the most beautiful nor the most gentle of their sex.
Nature, or, to speak with strict propriety, God, has made all
things right; but man has sought him out many inventions to mar the
work. I now allude to that part of Dr. Gregory's treatise, where he
advises a wife never to let her husband know the extent of her
sensibility or affection. Voluptuous precaution, and as ineffectual
as absurd. Love, from its very nature, must be transitory. To seek
for a secret that would render it constant, would be as wild a
search as for the philosopher's stone, or the grand panacea; and
the discovery would be equally useless, or rather pernicious, to
mankind. The most holy band of society is friendship. It has been
well said, by a shrewd satirist, "that rare as true love is true
friendship is still rarer."
This is an obvious truth, and, the cause not lying deep, will not
elude a slight glance of inquiry.
Love, the common passion, in which chance and sensation take place
of choice and reason, is, in some degree, felt by the mass of
mankind; for it is not necessary to speak, at present, of the
emotions that rise above or sink below love. This passion,
naturally increased by suspense and difficulties, draws the mind
out of its accustomed state, and exalts the affections; but the
security of marriage, allowing the fever of love to subside, a
healthy temperature is thought insipid only by those who have not
sufficient intellect to substitute the calm tenderness of
friendship, the confidence of respect, instead of blind admiration,
and the sensual emotions of fondness.
This is, must be, the course of nature. Friendship or indifference
inevitably succeeds love. And this constitution seems perfectly to
harmonise with the system of government which prevails in the moral
world. Passions are spurs to action, and open the mind; but they
sink into mere appetites, become a personal and momentary
gratification when the object is gained, and the satisfied mind
rests in enjoyment. The man who had some virtue whilst he was
struggling for a crown, often becomes a voluptuous tyrant when it
graces his brow; and, when the lover is not lost in the husband,
the dotard, a prey to childish caprices and fond jealousies,
neglects the serious duties of life, and the caresses which should
excite confidence in his children are lavished on the overgrown
child, his wife.
In order to fulfil the duties of life, and to be able to pursue
with vigour the various employments which form the moral character,
a master and mistress of a family ought not to continue to love
each other with passion. I mean to say that they ought not to
indulge those emotions which disturb the order of society, and
engross the thoughts that should be otherwise employed. The mind
that has never been engrossed by one object wants vigour,--if it
can long be so, it is weak.
A mistaken education, a narrow uncultivated mind, and many sexual
prejudices, tend to make women more constant than men; but, for the
present, I shall not .ouch on this branch of the subject. I will go
still further, and advance, without dreaming of a paradox, that an
unhappy marriage is often very advantageous to a family, and that
the neglected wife is, in general, the best mother. And this would
almost always be the consequence if the female mind were more
enlarged; for, it seems to be the common dispensation of
Providence, that what we gain in present enjoyment should be
deducted from the treasure of life, experience; and that when we
are gathering the flowers of the day, and revelling in pleasure,
the solid fruit of toil and wisdom should not be caught at the same
time. The way lies before us, we must turn to the right or left;
and he who will pass life away in bounding from one pleasure to
another, must not complain if he acquire neither wisdom nor
respectability of character.
Supposing, for a moment, that the soul is not immortal, and that
man was only created for the present scene,--I think we should have
reason to complain that love, infantine fondness, ever grew insipid
and palled upon the sense. Let us eat, drink, and love, for
to-morrow we die, would be, in fact, the language of reason, the
morality of life; and who but a fool would part with a reality for
a fleeting shadow ? But, if awed by observing the improbable powers
of the mind, we disdain to confine our wishes or thoughts to such
a comparatively mean field of action, that only appears grand and
important, as it is connected with a boundless prospect and sublime
hopes, what necessity is there for falsehood in conduct, and why
must the sacred majesty of truth be violated to detain a deceitful
good that saps the very foundation of virtue? Why must the female
mind be tainted by coquettish arts to gratify the sensualist, and
prevent love from subsiding into friendship, or compassionate
tenderness, when there are not qualities on which friendship can be
built? Let the honest heart show itself, and reason teach passion
to submit to necessity; or, let the dignified pursuit of virtue and
knowledge raise the mind above those emotions which rather embitter
than sweeten the cup of life, when they are not restrained within
due bounds.
I do not mean to allude to the romantic passion, which is the
concomitant of genius. Who can clip its wing? But that grand
passion not proportioned to the puny enjoyments of life, is only
true to the sentiment, and feeds on itself. The passions which have
been celebrated for their durability have always been unfortunate.
They have acquired strength by absence and constitutional
melancholy. The fancy has hovered round a form of beauty dimly
seen; but familiarity might have turned admiration into disgust,
or, at least, into indifference, and allowed the imagination
leisure to start fresh game. With perfect propriety, according to
this view of things, does Rousseau make the mistress of his soul,
Eloisa, love St. Preux, when life was fading before her; but this
is no proof of the immortality of the passion.
Of the same complexion is Dr. Gregory's advice respecting delicacy
of sentiment, which he advises a woman not to acquire, if she have
determined to marry. This determination, however, perfectly
consistent with his former advice, he calls indelicate, and
earnestly persuades his daughters to conceal it, though it may
govern their conduct, as if it were indelicate to have the common
appetites of human nature.
Noble morality! and consistent with the cautious prudence of a
little soul that cannot extend its views beyond the present minute
division of existence. If all the faculties of woman's mind are
only to be cultivated as they respect her dependence on man; if,
when a husband be obtained, she have arrived at her goal, and
meanly proud, rests satisfied with such a paltry crown, let her
grovel contentedly, scarcely raised by her employments above the
animal kingdom; but, if struggling for the prize of her high
calling, she look beyond the present scene, let her cultivate her
understanding without stopping to consider what character the
husband may have whom she is destined to marry. Let her only
determine, without being too anxious about present happiness, to
acquire the qualities that ennoble a rational being, and a rough
inelegant husband may shock her taste without destroying her peace
of mind. She will not model her soul to suit the frailties of her
companion, but to bear with them; his character may be a trial, but
not an impediment to virtue.
If Dr. Gregory confined his remark to romantic.expectations of
constant love and congenial feelings, he should have recollected
that experience will banish what advice can never make us cease to
wish for, when the imagination is kept alive at the expense of
reason.
I own it frequently happens, that women who have fostered a
romantic unnatural delicacy of feeling, waste their [3] lives in
imagining how happy they should have been with a husband who could
love them with a fervid increasing affection every day, and all
day. But they might as well pine married as single, and would not
be a jot more unhappy with a bad husband than longing for a good
one. That a proper education, or, to speak with more precision, a
well-stored mind, would enable a woman to support a single life
with dignity, I grant; but that she should avoid cultivating her
taste, lest her husband should occasionally shock it, is quitting
a substance for a shadow. To say the truth, I do not know of what
use is an improved taste, if the individual be not rendered more
independent of the casualties of life; if new sources of enjoyment,
only dependent on the solitary operations of the mind, are not
opened. People of taste, married or single, without distinction,
will ever be disgusted by various things that touch not less
observing minds. On this conclusion the argument must not be
allowed to hinge; but in the whole sum of enjoyment is taste to be
denominated a blessing?
The question is, whether it procures most pain or pleasure? The
answer will decide the propriety of Dr. Gregory's advice, and show
how absurd and tyrannic it is thus to lay down a system of slavery,
or to attempt to educate moral beings by any other rules than those
deduced from pure reason, which apply to the whole species.
Gentleness of manners, forbearance and long-suffering, are such
amiable Godlike qualities, that in sublime poetic strains the
Deity has been invested with them; and, perhaps, no representation
of His goodness so strongly fastens on the human affections as
those that represent Him abundant in mercy and willing to pardon.
Gentleness, considered in this point of view, bears on its front
all the characteristics of grandeur, combined with the winning
graces of condescension; but what a different aspect it assumes
when it is the submissive demeanour of dependence, the support of
weakness that loves, because it wants protection; and is
forbearing, because it must silently endure injuries; smiling under
the lash at which it dare not snarl. Abject as this picture
appears, it is the portrait of an accomplished woman, according to
the received opinion of female excellence, separated by specious
reasoners from human excellence. Or, they [4] kindly restore the
rib, and make one moral being of a man and woman; not forgetting to
give her all the "submissive charms."
How women are to exist in that state where there is neither to be
marrying nor giving in marriage, we are not told. For though
moralists have agreed that the tenor of life seems to prove that
man is prepared by various circumstances for a future state, they
constantly concur in advising woman only to provide for the
present. Gentleness, docility, and a spaniel like affection are, on
this ground, consistently recommended as the cardinal virtues of
the sex; and, disregarding the arbitrary economy of nature, one
writer has declared that it is masculine for a woman to be
melancholy. She was created to be the toy of man, his rattle, and
it must jingle in his ears whenever, dismissing reason, he chooses
to be amused.
To recommend gentleness, indeed, on a broad basis is strictly
philosophical. A frail being should labour to be gentle. But when
forbearance confounds right and wrong, it ceases to be a virtue;
and, however convenient it may be found in a companion--that
companion will ever be considered as an inferior, and only inspire
a vapid tenderness, which easily degenerates into contempt. Still,
if advice could really make a being gentle, whose natural
disposition admitted not of such a fine polish, something towards
the advancement of order would be attained; but if, as might
quickly be demonstrated, only affectation be produced by this
indiscriminate counsel, which throws a stumbling-block in the way
of gradual improvement, and true melioration of temper, the sex is
not much benefited by sacrificing solid virtues to the attainment
of superficial graces, though for a few years they may procure the
individuals regal sway.
As a philosopher, I read with indignation the plausible epithets
which men use to soften their insults; and, as a moralist, I ask
what is meant by such heterogeneous associations, as fair defects,
amiable weaknesses, etc. ? If there be but one criterion of morals,
but one architype for man, women appear to be suspended by destiny,
according to the vulgar tale of Mahomet's coffin; they have neither
the unerring instinct of brutes, nor are allowed to fix the eye of
reason on a perfect model. They were made to be loved, and must not
aim at respect, lest they should be hunted out of society as
masculine.
But to view the subject in another point of view. Do passive
indolent women make the best wives? Confining our discussion to the
present moment of existence, let us see how such weak creatures
perform their part ? Do the women who, by the attainment of a few
superficial accomplishments, have strengthened the prevailing
prejudice, merely contribute to the happiness of their husbands? Do
they display their charms merely to amuse them ? And have women who
have early imbibed notions of passive obedience, sufficient
character to manage a family or educate children? So far from it,
that, after surveying the history of woman, I cannot help agreeing
with the severest satirist, considering the sex as the weakest as
well as the most oppressed half of the species. What does history
disclose but marks of inferiority, and how few women have
emancipated themselves from the galling yoke of sovereign man? So
few that the exceptions remind me of an ingenious conjecture
respecting Newton-- that he was probably a being of superior order
accidentally caged in a human body. Following the same train of
thinking, I have been led to imagine that the few extraordinary
women who have rushed in eccentrical directions out of the orbit
prescribed to their sex, were male spirits, confined by mistake in
female frames. But if it be not philosophical to think of sex when
the soul is mentioned, the inferiority must depend on the organs;
or the heavenly fire, which is to ferment the clay, is not given in
equal portions.
But avoiding, as I have hitherto done, any direct comparison of the
two sexes collectively, or frankly acknowledging the inferiority of
woman, according to the present appearance of things, I shall only
insist that men have increased that inferiority till women are
almost sunk below the standard of rational creatures. Let their
faculties have room to unfold, and their virtues to gain strength,
and then determine where the whole sex must stand in the
intellectual scale. Yet let it be remembered, that for a small
number of distinguished women I do not ask a place.
It is difficult for us purblind mortals to say to what height human
discoveries and improvements may arrive when the gloom of despotism
subsides, which makes us stumble at every step; but, when morality
shall be settled on a more solid basis, then, without being gifted
with a prophetic spirit, I will venture to predict that woman will
be either the friend or slave of man. We shall not, as at present,
doubt whether she is a moral agent, or the link which unites man
with brutes. But should it then appear that like the brutes they
were principally created for the use of man, he will let them
patiently bite the bridle, and not mock them with empty praise; or,
should their rationality be proved, he will not impede their
improvement merely to gratify his sensual appetites. He will not,
with all the graces of rhetoric, advise them to submit implicitly
their understanding to the guidance of man. He will not, when he
treats of the education of women, assert that they ought never to
have the free use of reason, nor would he recommend cunning and
dissimulation to beings who are acquiring, in like manner as
himself, the virtues of humanity.
Surely there can be but one rule of right, if morality has an
eternal foundation, and whoever sacrifices virtue, strictly so
called, to present convenience, or whose duty it is to act in such
a manner, lives only for the passing day, and cannot be an
accountable creature.
The poet then should have dropped his sneer when he says:
If weak women go astray,
The stars are more ill fault than they
For that they are bound by the adamantine chain of destiny is most
certain, if it be proved that they are never to exercise their own
reason, never to be independent, never to rise above opinion, or to
feel the dignity of a rational will that only bows to God, and
often forgets that the universe contains any being but itself and
the model of perfection to which its ardent gaze is turned, to
adore attributes that, softened into virtues, may be imitated in
kind, though the degree overwhelms the enraptured mind.
If, I say, for I would not impress by declamation when Reason
offers her sober light, if they be really capable of acting like
rational creatures, let them not be treated like slaves; or, like
the brutes who are dependent on the reason of man, when they
associate with him; but cultivate their minds, give them the
salutary sublime curb of principle, and let them attain conscious
dignity by feeling themselves only dependent on God. Teach them, in
common with man, to submit to necessity, instead of giving, to
render them more pleasing, a sex to morals.
Further, should experience prove that they cannot attain the same
degree of strength of mind, perseverance, and fortitude, let their
virtues be the same in kind, though they may vainly struggle for
the same degree; and the superiority of man will be equally clear,
if not clearer; and truth, as it is a simple principle, which
admits of no modification, would be common to both. Nay the order
of society, as it is at present regulated, would not be inverted,
for woman would then only have the rank that reason assigned her,
and arts could not be practised to bring the balance even, much
less to turn it.
These may be termed Utopian dreams. Thanks to that Being who
impressed them on my soul, and gave me sufficient strength of mind
to dare to exert my own reason, till, becoming dependent only on
Him for the support of my virtue, I view, with indignation, the
mistaken notions that enslave my sex.
I love man as my fellow; but his sceptre, real or usurped, extends
not to me, unless the reason of an individual demands my homage;
and even then the submission is to reason, and not to man. In fact,
the conduct of an accountable being must be regulated by the
operations of its own reason; or on what foundation rests the
throne of God?
It appears to me necessary to dwell on these obvious truths,
because females have been insulated, as it were; and while they
have been stripped of the virtues that should clothe humanity, they
have been decked with artificial graces that enable them to
exercise a short-lived tyranny. Love, in their bosoms, taking place
of every nobler passion, their sole ambition is to be fair, to
raise emotion instead of inspiring respect; and this ignoble
desire, like the servility in absolute monarchies, destroys all
strength of character. Liberty is the mother of virtue, and if
women be, by their very constitution, slaves, and not allowed to
breathe the sharp invigorating air of freedom, they must ever
languish like exotics, and be reckoned beautiful flaws in nature.
As to the argument respecting the subjection in which the sex has
ever been held, it retorts on man. The many have always been
enthralled by the few; and monsters, who scarcely have shown any
discernment of human excellence, have tyrannised over thousands of
their fellow-creatures. Why have men of superior endowments
submitted to such degradation? For, is it not universally
acknowledged that kings, viewed collectively, have ever been
inferior, in abilities and virtue, to the same number of men taken
from the common mass of mankind-- yet have they not, and are they
not still treated with a degree of reverence that is an insult to
reason? China is not the only country where a living man has been
made a God. Men have submitted to superior strength to enjoy with
impunity the pleasure of the moment; women have only done the same,
and therefore till it is proved that the courtier, who servilely
resigns the birthright of a man, is not a moral agent, it cannot be
demonstrated that woman is essentially inferior to man because she
has always been subjugated.
Brutal force has hitherto governed the world, and that the science
of politics is in its infancy, is evident from philosophers
scrupling to give the knowledge most useful to man that determinate
distinction.
I shall not pursue this argument any further than to establish an
obvious inference, that as sound politics diffuse liberty, mankind,
including woman, will become more wise and virtuous.
NOTES
[1] Why should women be censured with petulant acrimony because
they seem to have a passion for a scarlet coat? Has not an
education placed them more on a level with soldiers than any other
class of men?
[2] Similar feelings has Milton's pleasing picture of paradisiacal
happiness ever raised in my; yet, instead of envying the lovely
pair, I have with concious dignity or satanic pride turned to hell
for sublimer objects. In the same style, when viewing some noble
monument of human art, I have traced the emanation of the Deity in
the order I admired, till, descending from that giddy height, I
have caught myself contemplating the grandest of all human sights;
for fancy quickly placed in some solitary recess an outcast of
fortune, rising superior to passion and discontent.
[3] For example, the herd of Novelists.
[4] Vide Rousseau and Swedenborg.
CHAPTER III
THE SAME SUBJECT CONTINUED
Bodily strength from being the distinction of heroes is now sunk
into such unmerited contempt that men, as well as women, seem to
think it unnecessary; the latter, as it takes from their feminine
graces, and from that lovely weakness, the source of their undue
power; and the former, because it appears inimical to the character
of a gentleman.
That they have both, by departing from one extreme run into
another, may easily be proved; but first it may be proper to
observe that a vulgar error has obtained a degree of credit, which
has given force to a false conclusion, in which an effect has been
mistaken for a cause.
People of genius have very frequently impaired their constitutions
by study or careless inattention to their health, and the violence
of their passions bearing a proportion to the vigour of their
intellects, the sword's destroying the scabbard has become almost
proverbial, and superficial observers have inferred from thence
that men of genius have commonly weak, or, to use a more
fashionable phrase, delicate constitutions. Yet the contrary, I
believe, will appear to be the fact; for, on diligent inquiry, I
find that strength of mind has in most cases been accompanied by
superior strength of body,--natural soundness of constitution,--not
that robust tone of nerves and vigour of muscles, which arise from
bodily labour, when the mind is quiescent, or only directs the
hands.
Dr. Priestley has remarked, in the preface to his biographical
chart, that the majority of great men have lived beyond fortyfive.
And considering the thoughtless manner in which they have lavished
their strength when investigating a favourite science, they have
wasted the lamp of life, forgetful of the midnight hour; or, when
lost in poetic dreams, fancy has peopled the scene, and the soul
has been disturbed, till it shook the constitution by the passions
that meditation had raised,--whose objects, the baseless fabric of
a vision, faded before the exhausted eye,--they must have had iron
frames. Shakespeare never grasped the airy danger with a nerveless
hand, nor did Milton tremble when he led Satan far from the
confines of his dreary prison. These were not the ravings of
imbecility, the sickly effusions of distempered brains, but the
exuberance of fancy, that " in a fine frenzy " wandering, was not
continually reminded of its material shackles.
I am aware that this argument would carry me further than it may be
supposed I wish to go; but I follow truth, and still adhering to my
first position, I will allow that bodily strength seems to give man
a natural superiority over woman; and this is the only solid basis
on which the superiority of the sex can be built. But I still
insist that not only the virtue but the knowledge of the two sexes
should be the same in nature, if not in degree, and that women,
considered not only as moral but rational creatures, ought to
endeavour to acquire human virtues (or perfections) by the same
means as men, instead of being educated like a fanciful kind of
half being--one of Rousseau's wild chimeras.[1]
But if strength of body be with some show of reason the boast of
men, why are women so infatuated as to be proud of a defect ?
Rousseau has furnished them with a plausible excuse, which could
only have occurred to a man whose imagination had been allowed to
run wild, and refine on the impressions made by exquisite senses;
that they might forsooth have a pretext for yielding to a natural
appetite without violating a romantic species of modesty, which
gratifies the pride and libertinism of man.
Women, deluded by these sentiments, sometimes boast of their
weakness, cunningly obtaining power by playing on the weakness of
men; and they may well glory in their illicit sway, for, like
Turkish bashaws, they have more real power than their masters; but
virtue is sacrificed to temporary gratifications, and the
respectability of life to the triumph of an hour.
Women, as well as despots, have now perhaps more power than they
would have if the world, divided and subdivided into kingdoms and
families, were governed by laws deduced from the exercise of
reason; but in obtaining it, to carry on the comparison, their
character is degraded, and licentiousness spread through the whole
aggregate of society. The many become pedestal to the few. I,
therefore, will venture to assert that till women are more
rationally educated, the progress of human virtue and improvement
in knowledge must receive continual checks. And if it be granted
that woman was not created merely to gratify the appetite of man,
or to be the upper servant who provides his meals and takes care of
his linen, it must follow that the first care of those mothers or
fathers who really attend to the education of females should be, if
not to strengthen the body, at least not to destroy the
constitution by mistaken notions of beauty and female excellence;
nor should girls ever be allowed to imbibe the pernicious notion
that a defect can, by any chemical process of reasoning, become an
excellence. In this respect I am happy to find that the author of
one of the most instructive books that our country has produced for
children, coincides with me in opinion. I shall quote his pertinent
remarks to give the force of his respectable authority to
reason.[2]
But should it be proved that woman is naturally weaker than man,
whence does it follow that it is natural for her to labour to
become still weaker than nature intended her to be? Arguments of
this cast are an insult to common sense, and savour of passion. The
divine right of husbands, like the divine right of kings, may, it
is to be hoped, in this enlightened age, be contested without
danger; and though conviction may not silence many boisterous
disputants, yet, when any prevailing prejudice is attacked, the
wise will consider, and leave the narrow-minded to rail with
thoughtless vehemence at innovation.
The mother who wishes to give true dignity of character to her
daughter must, regardless of the sneers of ignorance, proceed on a
plan diametrically opposite to that which Rousseau has recommended
with all the deluding charms of eloquence and philosophical
sophistry, for his eloquence renders absurdities plausible, and his
dogmatic conclusions puzzle, without convincing, those who have not
ability to refute them.
Throughout the whole animal kingdom every young creature requires
almost continual exercise, and the infancy of children, conformable
to this intimation, should be passed in harmless gambols that
exercise the feet and hands, without requiring very minute
direction from the head, or the constant attention of a nurse. In
fact, the care necessary for self-preservation is the first natural
exercise of the understanding as little inventions to amuse the
present moment unfold the imagination. But these wise designs of
nature are counteracted by mistaken fondness or blind zeal. The
child is not left a moment to its own direction--particularly a
girl and thus rendered dependent. Dependence is called natural.
To preserve personal beauty--woman's glory--the limbs and faculties
are cramped with worse than Chinese bands, and the sedentary life
which they are condemned to live, whilst boys frolic in the open
air, weakens the muscles and relaxes the nerves. As for Rousseau's
remarks, which have since been echoed by several writers, that they
have naturally, that is, from their birth, independent of
education, a fondness for dolls, dressing, and talking, they are so
puerile as not to merit a serious refutation. That a girl,
condemned to sit for hours together listening to the idle chat of
weak nurses, or to attend at her mother's toilet, will endeavour to
join the conversation, is, indeed, very natural; and that she will
imitate her mother or aunts, and amuse herself by adorning her
lifeless doll, as they do in dressing her, poor innocent babe! is
undoubtedly a most natural consequence. For men of the greatest
abilities have seldom had sufficient strength to rise above the
surrounding atmosphere; and if the pages of genius have always been
blurred by the prejudices of the age, some allowance should be made
for a sex, who, like kings, always see things through a false
medium.
Purposing these reflections, the fondness for dress, conspicuous in
woman, may be easily accounted for, without supposing it the result
of a desire to please the sex on which they are dependent. The
absurdity, in short, of supposing that a girl is naturally a
coquette, and that a desire connected with the impulse of nature to
propagate the species, should appear even before an improper
education has, by heating the imagination, called it forth
prematurely, is so unphilosophical, that such a sagacious observer
as Rousseau would not have adopted it, if he had not been
accustomed to make reason give way to his desire of singularity,
and truth to a favourite paradox. Yet thus to give a sex to mind
was not very consistent with the principles of a man who argued so
warmly, and so well, for the immortality of the soul. But what a
weak barrier is truth when it stands in the way of an hypothesis !
Rousseau respected --almost adored virtue--and yet he allowed
himself to love with sensual fondness. His imagination constantly
prepared inflammable fuel for his inflammable senses; but, in order
to reconcile his respect for self-denial, fortitude, and those
heroic virtues, which a mind like his could not coolly admire, he
labours to invert the law of nature, and broaches a doctrine
pregnant with mischief, and derogatory to the character of supreme
wisdom.
His ridiculous stories, which tend to prove that girls are
naturally attentive to their persons, without laying any stress on
daily example, are below contempt. And that a little miss should
have such a correct taste as to neglect the pleasing amusement of
making O's, merely because she perceived that it was an ungraceful
attitude, should be selected with the anecdotes of the learned
pig.[3]
I have, probably, had an opportunity of observing more girls in
their infancy than J. J. Rousseau. I can recollect my own feelings,
and I have looked steadily around me; yet, so far from coinciding
with him in opinion respecting the first dawn of the female
character, I will venture to affirm, that a girl, whose spirits
have not been damped by inactivity, or innocence tainted by false
shame, will always be a romp, and the doll will never excite
attention unless confinement allows her no alternative. Girls and
boys, in short, would play, harmlessly together, if the distinction
of sex was not inculcated long before nature makes any difference.
I will go further, and affirm, as an indisputable fact, that most
of the women, in the circle of my observation, who have acted like
rational creatures, or shown any vigour of intellect, have
accidentally been allowed to run wild, as some of the elegant
formers of the fair sex would insinuate.
The baneful consequences which flow from inattention to health
during infancy and youth, extend further than is supposed--
dependence of body naturally produces dependence of mind; and how
can she be a good wife or mother, the greater part of whose time is
employed to guard against or endure sickness? Nor can it be
expected that & woman will resolutely endeavour to strengthen her
constitution and abstain from enervating indulgences, if artificial
notions of beauty, and false descriptions of sensibility, have been
early entangled with her motives of action. Most men are sometimes
obliged to bear with bodily inconveniences, and to endure,
occasionally, the inclemency of the elements; but genteel women
are, literally speaking, slaves to their bodies, and glory in their
subjection.
I once knew a weak woman of fashion, who was more than commonly
proud of her delicacy and sensibility. She thought a distinguishing
taste and puny appetite the height of all human perfection, and
acted accordingly. I have seen this weak sophisticated being
neglect all the duties of life, yet recline with self-complacency
on a sofa, and boast of her want of appetite as a proof of delicacy
that extended to, or, perhaps, arose from, her exquisite
sensibility; for it is difficult to render intelligible such
ridiculous jargon. Yet, at the moment, I have seen her insult a
worthy old gentlewoman, whom unexpected misfortunes had made
dependent on her ostentatious bounty, and who, in better days, had
claims on her gratitude. Is it possible that a human creature could
have become such a weak and depraved being, if, like the Sybarites,
dissolved in luxury, everything like virtue had not been worn
pressed by precept, a poor substitute, it is of mind, though it
serves as a fence against vice?
Such a woman is not a more irrational monster than some of the
Roman emperors, who were depraved by lawless power. Yet, since
kings have been more under the restraint of law, and the curb,
however weak, of honour, the records of history are not filled with
such unnatural instances of folly and cruelty, nor does the
despotism that kills virtue and genius in the bud, hover over
Europe with that destructive blast which desolates Turkey, and
renders the men, as well as the soil, unfruitful.
Women are everywhere in this deplorable state; for, in order to
preserve their innocence, as ignorance is courteously termed, truth
is hidden from them, and they are made to assume an artificial
character before their faculties have acquired any strength. Taught
from their infancy that beauty is woman's sceptre, the mind shapes
itself to the body, and roaming round its gilt cage, only seeks to
adore its prison. Men have various employments and pursuits which
engage their attention, and give a character to the opening mind;
but women, confined to one, and having their thoughts constantly
directed to the most insignificant part of themselves, seldom
extend their views beyond the triumph of the hour. But were their
understanding once emancipated from the slavery to which the pride
and sensuality of man and their short-sighted desire, like that of
dominion in tyrants, of present sway, has subjected them, we should
probably read of their weaknesses with surprise. I must be allowed
to pursue the argument a little further.
Perhaps, if the existence of an evil being were allowed, who, in
the allegorical language of Scripture, went about seeking whom he
should devour, he could not more effectually degrade the human
character, than by giving a man absolute power.
This argument branches into various ramifications. Birth, riches,
and every extrinsic advantage that exalt a man above his fellows,
without any mental exertion, sink him in reality below them. In
proportion to his weakness, he is played upon by designing men,
till the bloated monster has lost all traces of humanity. And that
tribes of-men, like flocks of sheep, should quietly follow such a
leader, is a solecism that only a desire of present enjoyment and
narrowness of understanding can solve. Educated in slavish
dependence, and enervated by luxury and sloth, where shall we find
men who will stand forth to assert the rights of man, or claim the
privilege of moral beings, who should have but one road to
excellence? Slavery to monarchs and ministers, which the world will
be long in freeing itself from, and whose deadly grasp stops the
progress of the human mind, is not yet abolished.
Let not men then in the pride of power, use the same arguments that
tyrannic kings and venal ministers have used, and fallaciously
assert that woman ought to be subjected because she has always
been so. But, when man, governed by reasonable laws, enjoys his
natural freedom, let him despise woman, if she do not share it with
him; and, till that glorious period arrives, in descanting on the
folly of the sex, let him not overlook his own.
Women, it is true, obtaining power by unjust means, by practising
or fostering vice, evidently lose the rank which reason would
assign them, and they become either abject slaves or capricious
tyrants. They lose all simplicity, all dignity of mind, in
acquiring power, and act as men are observed to act when they have
been exalted by the same means.
It is time to effect a revolution in female manners--time to
restore to them their lost dignity--and make them, as a part of the
human species, labour by reforming themselves to reform the world.
It is time to separate unchangeable morals from local manners. If
men be demi-gods, why let us serve them! And if the dignity of the
female soul be as disputable as that of animals--if their reason
does not afford sufficient light to direct their conduct whilst
unerring instinct is denied--they are surely of all creatures the
most miserable ! and, bent beneath the iron hand of destiny, must
submit to be a fair defect in creation. But to justify the ways of
Providence respecting them, by pointing out some irrefragable
reason for thus making such a large portion of mankind accountable
and not accountable, would puzzle the subtilest casuist.
The only solid foundation for morality appears to be the character
of the Supreme Being; the harmony of which arises from a balance of
attributes,--and, to speak with reverence, one attribute seems to
imply the necessity of another. He must be just, because He is
wise; He must be good, because He is omnipotent. For to exalt one
attribute at the expense of another equally noble and necessary,
bears the stamp of the warped reason of man--the homage of passion.
Man, accustomed to bow down to power in his savage state, can
seldom divest himself of this barbarous prejudice, even when
civilisation determines how much superior mental is to bodily
strength; and his reason is clouded by these crude opinions, even
when he thinks of the Deity. His omnipotence is made to swallow up,
or preside over His other attributes, and those morals are supposed
to limit His power irreverently, who think that it must be
regulated by His wisdom.
I disclaim that specious humility which, after investigating
nature, stops at the Author. The High and Lofty one, who inhabiteth
eternity, doubtless possesses many attributes of which we can form
no conception; but Reason tells me that they cannot dash with those
I adore--and I am compelled to listen to her voice.
It seems natural for man to search for excellence, and either to
trace it in the object that he worships, or blindly to invest it
with perfection, as a garment. But what good effect can the latter
mode of worship have on the moral conduct of a rational being? He
bends to power; he adores a dark cloud, which may open a bright
prospect to him, to burst in angry, lawless fury, on his devoted
head--he knows not why. And, supposing that the Deity acts from the
vague impulse of an undirected will, man must also follow his own,
or act according to rules, deduced from principles which he
disclaims as irreverent. Into this dilemma have both enthusiasts
and cooler thinkers fallen, when they laboured to free men from the
wholesome restraints which a just conception of the character of
God imposes.
It is not impious thus to scan the attributes of the Almighty: in
fact, who can avoid it that exercises his faculties? For to love
God as the fountain of wisdom, goodness, and power, appears to be
the only worship useful to a being who wishes to acquire either
virtue or knowledge. A blind unsettled affection may, like human
passions, occupy the mind and warm the heart, whilst, to do
justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God, is forgotten. I
shall pursue this subject still further, when I consider religion
in a light opposite to that recommended by Dr. Gregory, who treats
it as a matter of sentiment or taste.
To return from this apparent digression. It were to be wished that
women would cherish an affection for their husbands, founded on the
same principle that devotion ought to rest upon. No other firm base
is there under heaven--for let them beware of the fallacious light
of sentiment; too often used as a softer phrase for sensuality. It
follows then, I think, that from their infancy women should either
be shut up like Eastern princes, or educated in such a manner as to
be able to think and act for themselves.
Why do men halt between two opinions, and expect impossibilities?
Why do they expect virtue from a slave, from a being whom the
constitution of civil society has rendered weak, if not vicious?
Still I know that it will require a considerable length of time to
eradicate the firmly rooted prejudices which sensualists have
planted; it will also require some time to convince women that they
act contrary to their real interest on an enlarged scale, when they
cherish or affect weakness under the name of delicacy, and to
convince the world that the poisoned source of female vices and
follies, if it be necessary, in compliance with custom, to use
synonymous terms in a lax sense, has been the sensual homage paid
to beauty:--to beauty of features; for it has been shrewdly
observed by a German writer, that a pretty woman, as an object of
desire, is generally allowed to be so by men of all descriptions;
whilst a fine woman, who inspires more sublime emotions by
displaying intellectual beauty, may be overlooked or observed with
indifference, by those men who find their happiness in their
gratification of their appetites. I foresee an obvious
retort--whilst man remains such an imperfect being as he appears
hitherto to have been, he will, more or less, be the slave of his
appetites; and those women obtaining most power who gratify a
predominant one, the sex is degraded by a physical, if not by a
moral necessity.
This objection has, I grant, some force; but while such a sublime
precept exists, as, "Be pure as your heavenly Father is pure"; it
would seem that the virtues of man are not limited by the Being who
alone could limit them; and that he may press forward without
considering whether he steps out of his sphere by indulging such a
noble ambition. To the wild billows it has been said, "Thus far
shalt thou go, and no farther; and here shall thy proud waves be
stayed." Vainly then do they beat and foam, restrained by the power
that confines the struggling planets in their orbits, matter yields
to the great governing Spirit. But an immortal soul, not restrained
by mechanical laws and struggling to free itself from the shackles
of matter, contributes to, instead of disturbing, the order of
creation, when, co-operating with the Father of spirits, it tries
to govern itself by the invariable rule that, in a degree, before
which our imagination faints, regulates the universe.
Besides, if women be educated for dependence, that is, to act
according to the will of another fallible being, and submit, right
or wrong, to power, where are we to stop? Are they to be considered
as vicegerents allowed to reign over a small domain, and answerable
for their conduct to a higher tribunal, liable to error? It will
not be difficult to prove that such delegates will act like men
subjected by fear, and make their children and servants endure
their tyrannical oppression. As they submit without reason, they
will, having no fixed rules to square their conduct by, be kind, or
cruel, just as the whim of the moment directs; and we ought not to
wonder if sometimes, galled by their heavy yoke, they take a
malignant pleasure in resting it on weaker shoulders.
But, supposing a woman, trained up to obedience, be married to a
sensible man, who directs her judgment without making her feel the
servility of her subjection, to act with as much propriety by this
reflected light as can be expected when reason is taken at
secondhand, yet she cannot ensure the life of her protector; he may
die and leave her with a large family.
A double duty devolves on her; to educate them in the character of
both father and mother; to form their principles and secure their
property. But, alas! she has never thought, much less acted for
herself. She has only learned to please [4] men, to depend
gracefully on them; yet, encumbered with children, how is she to
obtain another protector--a husband to supply the place of reason?
A rational man, for we are not treading on romantic ground, though
he may think her a pleasing docile creature, will not choose to
marry a family for love, when the world contains many more pretty
creatures. What is then to become of her? She either falls an easy
prey to some mean fortune-hunter, who defrauds her children of
their paternal inheritance, and renders her miserable; or becomes
the victim of discontent and blind indulgence. Unable to educate
her sons, or impress them with respect,--for it is not a play on
words to assert, that people are never respected, though filling an
important station, who are not respectable,--she pines under the
anguish of unavailing impotent regret. The serpent's tooth enters
into her very soul, and the vices of licentious youth bring her
with sorrow, if not with poverty also, to the grave.
This is not an overcharged picture; on the contrary, it is a very
possible case, and something similar must have fallen under every
attentive eye.
I have, however, taken it for granted, that she was well disposed,
though experience shows, that the blind may as easily be led into
a ditch as along the beaten road. But supposing, no very improbable
conjecture, that a being only taught to please must still find her
happiness in pleasing; what an example of folly, not to say vice,
will she be to her innocent daughters! The mother will be lost in
the coquette, and, instead of making friends of her daughters, view
them with eyes askance, for they are rivals--rivals more cruel than
any other, because they invite a comparison, and drive her from the
throne of beauty, who has never thought of a seat on the bench of
reason.
It does not require a lively pencil, or the discriminating outline
of a caricature, to sketch the domestic miseries and petty vices
which such a mistress of a family diffuses. Still she only acts as
a woman ought to act, brought up according to Rousseau's system.
She can never be reproached for being masculine, or turning out of
her sphere; nay, she may observe another of his grand rules, and,
cautiously preserving her reputation free from spot, be reckoned a
good kind of woman. Yet in what respect can she be termed good? She
abstains, it is true, without any great struggle, from committing
gross crimes; but how does she fulfil her duties? Duties! in truth
she has enough to think of to adorn her body and nurse a weak
constitution.
With respect to religion, she never presumed to judge for herself;
but conformed, as a dependent creature should, to the effects of a
good education ! These the virtues of man's helpmate ![5]
I must relieve myself by drawing a different picture.
Let fancy now present a woman with a tolerable understanding, for
I do not wish to leave the line of mediocrity, whose constitution,
strengthened by exercise, has allowed her body to acquire its full
vigour; her mind, at the same time, gradually expanding itself to
comprehend the moral duties of life, and in what human virtue and
dignity consist.
Formed thus by the discharge of the relative duties of her station,
she marries from affection, without losing sight of prudence, and
looking beyond matrimonial felicity, she secures her husband's
respect before it is necessary to exert mean arts to please him and
feed a dying flame, which nature doomed to expire when the object
became familiar, when friendship and forbearance take place of a
more ardent affection. This is the natural death of love, and
domestic peace is not destroyed by struggles to prevent its
extinction. I also suppose the husband to be virtuous; or she is
still more in want of independent principles.
Fate, however, breaks this tie. She is left a widow, perhaps
without a sufficient provision; but she is not desolate! The pang
of nature is felt; but after time has softened sorrow into
melancholy resignation, her heart turns to her children with
redoubled fondness, and anxious to provide for them, affection
gives a sacred heroic cast to her maternal duties. She thinks that
not only the eye sees her virtuous efforts from whom all her
comfort now must flow, and whose approbation is life; but her
imagination, a little abstracted and exalted by grief, dwells on
the fond hope that the eyes which her trembling hand closed, may
still see how she subdues every wayward passion to fulfil the
double duty of being the father as well as the mother of her
children. Raised to heroism by misfortunes, she represses the first
faint dawning of a natural inclination, before it ripens into love,
and in the bloom of life forgets her sex--forgets the pleasure of
an awakening passion, which might again have been inspired and
returned. She no longer thinks of pleasing, and conscious dignity
prevents her from priding herself on account of the praise which
her conduct demands. Her children have her love, and her brightest
hopes are beyond the grave, where her imagination often strays.
I think I see her surrounded by her children, reaping the reward of
her care. The intelligent eye meets hers, whilst health and
innocence smile on their chubby cheeks, and as they grow up the
cares of life are lessened by their grateful attention. She lives
to see the virtues which she endeavoured to plant on principles,
fixed into habits, to see her children attain a strength of
character sufficient to enable them to endure adversity without
forgetting their mother's example.
The task of life thus fulfilled, she calmly waits for the sleep of
death, and rising from the grave, may say--"Behold, Thou gavest me
a talent, and here are five talents."
I wish to sum up what I have said in a few words, for I here throw
down my gauntlet, and deny the existence of sexual virtues, not
excepting modesty. For man and woman, truth, if I understand the
meaning of the word, must be the same; yet the fanciful female
character, so prettily drawn by poets and novelists, demanding the
sacrifice of truth and sincerity, virtue becomes a relative idea,
having no other foundation than utility, and of that utility men
pretend arbitrarily to judge, shaping it to their own convenience.
Women, I allow, may have different duties to fulfil; but they are
human duties, and the principles that should regulate the discharge
of them, I sturdily maintain, must be the same.
To become respectable, the exercise of their of their understanding
is necessary, there is of character; I mean bow to the authority
slaves of opinion.
In the superior ranks of life how seldom do we meet with a man of
superior abilities, or even common acquirements? The reason appears
to me clear, the state they are born in was an unnatural one. The
human character has ever been formed by the employments the
individual, or class, pursues; and if the faculties are not
sharpened by necessity, they must remain obtuse. The argument may
fairly be extended to women; for, seldom occupied by serious
business, the pursuit of pleasure gives that insignificancy to
their character which renders the society of the great so insipid.
The same want of firmness, produced by a similar cause, forces them
both to fly from themselves to noisy pleasures, and artificial
passions, till vanity takes place of every social affection, and
the characteristics of humanity can scarcely be discerned. Such are
the blessings of civil governments, as they are at present
organised, that wealth and female softness equally tend to debase
mankind, and are produced by the same cause; but allowing women to
be rational creatures, they should be incited to acquire virtues
which they may call their own, for how can a rational being be
ennobled by anything that is not obtained by its own exertions?
NOTES
[1] "Researches into abstract and speculative truths the
principles and axioms of sciences,--in short, everything which
tends to generalise our ideas,--is not the proper province of
women, their studies should be relative to points of practice; it
belongs to them to apply those principles which men have
discovered- and it is their part to make observations which direct
men to the establishment of general principles. All the ideas of
women, which have not the immediate tendency to points of duty
should be directed to the study of men, and to the attainment of
those agreeable accomplishments which have taste for their object-
for as to works of genius they are beyond their capacity neither
have they sufficient precision or power of attention to succeed in
sciences which require accuracy- and as to physical knowledge, it
belongs to those only who are most active, most inquisitive, who
comprehend the greatest variety of objects; in short, it belongs to
those who have the strongest powers, and who exercise them most, to
judge of the relations between sensible beings and the laws of
nature. A woman who is naturally weak, and does not carry her ideas
to any great extent, knows how to judge and make a proper estimate
of those movements which she sets to work, in order to aid her
weakness; and these movements are the passions of men. The
mechanism she employs is much more powerful than ours, for all her
levers move the human heart. She must have the skill to incline us
to do everything which her sex will not enable her to do herself,
and which is necessary or agreeable to her; therefore she ought to
study the mind of man thoroughly, not the mind of man in general,
abstractedly, but the dispositions of those men to whom she is
subject either by the laws of her country or by the force of
opinion. She should learn to penetrate into their real sentiments
from their conversation, their actions, their looks and gestures.
She should also have the art, by her own conversation, actions,
looks, and gestures, to communicate those sentiments which are
agreeable to them without seeming to intend it. Men will argue more
philosophically about the human heart- but women will read the
heart of men better than they. It belongs to women--if I may be
allowed the expression--to form an experimental morality, and to
reduce the study of man to a system Women have most wit, men have
most genius- women observe, men reason. From the Concurrence of
both we derive the clearest light and the most perfect knowledge
which the human mind is of itself capable of attaining. In one
word, from hence we acquire the most intimate acquaintance, both
with ourselves and others, of which our nature is capable; and it
is thus that art has a constant tendency to perfect those
endowments which nature has bestowed. The world is the book of
women." -- ROUSSEAU'S Emilius.
I hope my readers still remember the comparison which I have
brought forward between women and officers.
[2] "A respectable old man gives the following sensible account of
the method he pursued when educating his daughter: 'I endeavoured
to give both to her mind and body a degree of vigour which is
seldom found in the female sex. As soon as she was sufficiently
advanced in strength to be capable of the lighter labours of
husbandry and gardening I employed her as my constant companion.
Selene--for that was her name--soon acquired a dexterity in ill
these rustic employments which I considered with equal pleasure and
admiration. If women are in general feeble both in body and mind it
arises less from nature than from education. We encourage a vicious
indolence and inactivity which we falsely call delicacy. Instead of
hardening their minds by the severer principles of reason and
philosophy, we breed them to useless art which terminate in vanity
and sensuality. In most of the countries which I had visited they
are taught nothing of an higher nature than a few modulations of
the voice or useless postures of the body; their time is consumed
in sloth or trifles and tribulations become the only pursuit
capable of interesting them. We seem to forget that it is upon the
qualities of the female sex that our own domestic comforts and the
education of our children must depend. And what are the comforts or
the education which a race of being corrupted from their infancy
and unacquainted with all the duties of life are fitted to bestow?
To touch a musical instrument with useless skill to exhibit their
cultural or affected graces to the eyes of indolent and debauched
young men, to dissipate their husband's patrimony in riotous and
unnecessary expenses these are the only arts cultivated by women in
most of the polished nations I had seen. And the consequences are
uniformly such as may be expected to proceed from such polluted
sources -- private and public servitude.
"'But Selene's education was regulated by different views, and
conducted upon severer principles--if that can be called severity
which opens the mind to a sense of moral and religious duties, and
most effectually it arms it against the inevitable evils of life.'"
--Mr. Day's Sandford and Merton, vol. iii.
[3] "I once knew a young person who learned to write before she
learned to read, and began to write with her needle before she
could use a pen. At first, indeed she took it into her head to make
no letter than the O: this letter she was constantly making of all
sizes and always the wrong way. Unluckily one day as she was intent
on this employment, she happened to see herself in the
looking-glass; when, taking a dislike to the constrained attitude
in which she sat while writing she threw away her pen like another
Pallas and determined against making the O any more. Her brother
was also equally averse to writing; it was the confinement however
and not the constrained attitude that most disgusted him."
--Rousseau's Emililus.
[4] "In the union of the sexes, both pursue one common object, but
not in the same manner. From their diversity in this particular,
arises the first determinate difference between the moral relations
of each. The one should be active and strong the other passive and
weak; it is necessary the one should have both the power and the
will and that the other should make little resistance.
"This principle being established it follows that woman is
expressly formed to please the man: if the obligation be reciprocal
also and the man ought to please in his turn it is not so
immediately necessary his great merit is in his power and he
pleases merely because he is strong. This I must confess is not one
of the refined maxims of love; it is however one of the laws of
nature prior to love itself.
"If woman be formed to please and be subjected to man, it is her
place, doubtless, to render herself agreeable to him instead of
challenging his passion. The violence of his desires depends on her
charms is by means of these she should urge him to the exertion of
those powers which nature hath given him. The most successful
method of exciting them, is, to render such exertion necessary by
resistance; as in that case self-love is added to desire and the
one triumphs in the victory which the other is obliged to acquire.
Hence arise the various modes of attack and defence between the
sexes the boldness of one sex and the timidity of the other- and in
a word that bashfulness and modesty with which nature hath armed
the weak in order to subdue the strong." --Rousseau's Emilius.
I shall make no other comment on this ingenious passage than just
to observe that it is the philosophy of lasciviousness.
[5] "O how lovely, exclaims Rousseau, speaking of Sophia, is her
ignorance! Happy is he who is destined to instruct her! She will
never pretend to be the tutor of her husband but will be content to
be his pupil. Far from attempting to subject him to her taste she
will accommodate her self to his. She will be more estimable to him
than if she was learned he will have a pleasure in instructing her.
--Rousseau's Emilius.
I shall content myself with simply asking how friendship can
subsist when love expires between the master and his pupil.
CHAPTER IV
OBSERVATIONS ON THE STATE OF DEGRADATION TO WHICH
WOMAN IS REDUCED BY VARIOUS CAUSES
That woman is naturally weak, or degraded by a concurrence of
circumstances, is, I think, clear. But this position I shall simply
contrast with a conclusion, which I have frequently heard fall from
sensible men in favour of an aristocracy: that the mass of mankind
cannot be anything, or the obsequious slaves, who patiently allow
themselves to be driven forward, would feel their own consequence,
and spurn their chains. Men, they further observe, submit
everywhere to oppression, when they have only to lift up their
heads to throw off the yoke; yet, instead of asserting their
birthright, they quietly lick the dust, and say, "Let us eat and
drink, for tomorrow we die." Women, I argue from analogy, are
degraded by the same propensity to enjoy the present moment, and at
last despise the freedom which they have not sufficient virtue to
struggle to attain. But I must be more explicit.
With respect to the culture of the heart, it is unanimously allowed
that sex is out of the question; but the line of subordination in
the mental powers is never to be passed over.[1] Only "absolute in
loveliness," the portion of rationality granted to woman is,
indeed, very scanty; for denying her genius and judgment, it is
scarcely possible to divine what remains to characterise intellect.
The stamen of immortality, if I may be allowed the phrase is the
perfectibility of human reason; for, were man created perfect, or
did a flood of knowledge break in upon him, when he arrived at
maturity, that precluded error, I should doubt whether his
existence would be continued after the dissolution of the body.
But, in the present state of things, every difficulty in morals
that escapes from human discussion, and equally baffles the
investigation of profound thinking, and the lightning glance of
genius, is an argument on which I build my belief of the
immortality of the soul. Reason is, consequentially, the simple
power of improvement; or, more properly speaking, of discerning
truth. Every individual is in this respect a world in itself. More
or less may be conspicuous in one being than another; but the
nature of reason must be the same in all, if it be an emanation of
divinity, the tie that connects the creature with the Creator; for,
can that soul be stamped with the heavenly image, that is not
perfected by the exercise of its own reason?[2] Yet outwardly
ornamented with elaborate care, and so adorned to delight man, "
that with honour he may love,"[3] the soul of woman is not allowed
to
have this distinction, and man, ever placed between her and reason,
she is always represented as only created to see through a gross
medium, and to take things on trust. But dismissing these fanciful
theories, and considering woman as a whole, let it be what it will,
instead of a part of man, the inquiry is whether she have reason or
not. If she have, which, for a moment, I will take for granted, she
was not created merely to be the solace of man, and the sexual
should not destroy the human character.
Into this error men have, probably, been led by viewing education
in a false light; not considering it as the first step to form a
being advancing gradually towards perfection;[4] but only as a
preparation for life. On this sensual error, for I must call it so,
has the false system of female manners been reared, which robs the
whole sex of its dignity, and classes the brown and fair with the
smiling flowers that only adorn the land. This has ever been the
language of men, and the fear of departing from a supposed sexual
character, has made even women of superior sense adopt the same
sentiments.[5] Thus understanding, strictly speaking, has been
denied
to woman; and instinct, sublimated into wit and cunning, for the
purposes of life, has been substituted in its stead.
The power of generalizing ideas, of drawing comprehensive
conclusions from individual observations, is the only acquirement,
for an immortal being, that really deserves the name of knowledge.
Merely to observe, without endeavouring to account for anything,
may (in a very incomplete manner) serve as the common sense of
life; but where is the store laid up that is to clothe the soul
when it leaves the body?
This power has not only been denied to women; but writers have
insisted that it is inconsistent, with a few exceptions, with their
sexual character. Let men prove this, and I shall grant that woman
only exists for man. I must, however, previously remark, that the
power of generalizing ideas, to any great extent, is not very
common amongst men or women. But this exercise is the true
cultivation of the understanding; and everything conspires to
render the cultivation of the understanding more difficult in the
female than the male world.
I am naturally led by this assertion to the main subject of the
present chapter, and shall now attempt to point out some of the
causes that degrade the sex, and prevent women from generalizing
their observations.
I shall not go back to the remote annals of antiquity to trace the
history of woman; it is sufficient to allow that she has always
been either a slave or a despot, and to remark that each of these
situations equally retards the progress of reason. The grand source
of female folly and vice has ever appeared to me to arise from
narrowness of mind; and the very constitution of civil governments
has put almost insuperable obstacles in the way to prevent the
cultivation of the female understanding; yet virtue can be built on
no other foundation. The same obstacles are thrown in the way of
the rich, and the same consequences ensue.
Necessity has been proverbially termed the mother of invention; the
aphorism may be extended to virtue. It is an acquirement, and an
acquirement to which pleasure must be sacrificed; and who
sacrifices pleasure when it is within the grasp, whose mind has not
been opened and strengthened by adversity, or the pursuit of
knowledge goaded on by necessity? Happy is it when people have the
cares of life to struggle with, for these struggles prevent their
becoming a prey to enervating vices, merely from idleness. But if
from their birth men and women be placed in a torrid zone, with the
meridian sun of pleasure darting directly upon them, how can they
sufficiently brace their minds to discharge the duties of life; or
even to relish the affections that carry them out of themselves?
Pleasure is the business of woman's life, according to the present
modification of society; and while it continues to be so, little
can be expected from such weak beings. Inheriting in a lineal
descent from the first fair defect in nature--the sovereignty of
beauty--they have, to maintain their-power, resigned the natural
rights which the exercise of reason might have procured them, and
chosen rather to be short-lived queens than labour to obtain the
sober pleasures that arise from equality. Exalted by their
inferiority (this sounds like a contradiction), they constantly
demand homage as women, though experience should teach them that
the men who pride themselves upon paying this arbitrary insolent
respect to the sex, with the most scrupulous exactness) are most
inclined to tyrannise over, and despise the very weakness they
cherish. Often do they repeat Mr. Hume's sentiments, when,
comparing the French and Athenian character, he alludes to
women,--"But what is more singular in this whimsical nation, say I
to the Athenians, is,' that a frolic of yours during the
saturnalia, when the slaves are served by their masters,. is
seriously continued by them through the whole year, and through the
whole course of their lives, accompanied, too, with some
circumstances, which still further augment the absurdity and
ridicule. Your sport only elevates for a few days those whom
fortune has thrown down, and whom she too, in sport, may really
elevate for ever above you. But this nation gravely exalts those
whom nature has subjected to them, and whose inferiority and
infirmities are absolutely incurable. The women, though without
virtue, are their masters and sovereigns."
Ah! why do women--I write with affectionate solicitude-- condescend
to receive a degree of attention and respect from strangers
different from that reciprocation of civility which the dictates of
humanity and the politeness of civilisation authorise between man
and man? And why do they not discover, when "in the noon of
beauty's power," that they are treated like queens only to be
deluded by hollow respect, till they are led to resign, or not
assume, their natural prerogatives? Confined, then, in cages like
the feathered race, they have nothing to do but to plume
themselves, and stalk with mock majesty from perch to perch. It is
true they are provided with food and raiment, for which they
neither toil nor spin; but health, liberty, and virtue are given in
exchange. But where, amongst mankind, has been found sufficient
strength of mind to enable a being to resign these adventitious
prerogatives--one who, rising with the calm dignity of reason above
opinion, dared to be proud of the privileges inherent in man? And
it is vain to expect it whilst hereditary power chokes the
affections, and nips reason in the bud.
The passions of men have thus placed women on thrones, and till
mankind become more reasonable, it is to be feared that women will
avail themselves of the power which they P attain with the least
exertion, and which is the most indisputable. They will smile--yes,
they will smile, though told that:
In beauty's empire is no mean,
And woman, either slave or queen,
Is quickly scorned when not adored
But the adoration comes first, and the scorn is not anticipated.
Louis XIV, in particular, spread factitious manners, and caught, in
a specious way, the whole nation in his toils; for, establishing an
artful chain of despotism, he made it the interest of the people at
large individually to respect his station, and support his power.
And women, whom he flattered by a puerile attention to the whole
sex, obtained in his reign that prince-like distinction so fatal to
reason and virtue.
A king is always a king, and a woman always a woman.[6] His
authority
and her sex ever stand between them and rational converse. With a
lover, I grant. she should be so, and her sensibility will
naturally lead her to endeavour to excite emotion, not to gratify
her vanity, but her heart. This I do not allow to be coquetry; it
is the artless impulse of nature. I only exclaim against the sexual
desire of conquest when the heart is out of the question.
This desire is not confined to women. "I have endeavoured," says
Lord Chesterfield, "to gain the hearts of twenty women, whose
persons I would not have given a fig for." The libertine who, in a
gust of passion, takes advantage of unsuspecting tenderness, is a
saint when compared with this cold-hearted rascal--for I like to
use significant words. Yet only taught to please, women are always
on the watch to please, and with true heroic ardour endeavour to
gain hearts merely to resign or spurn them when the victory is
decided and conspicuous.
I must descend to the minutiae of the subject.
I lament that women are systematically degraded by receiving the
trivial attentions which men think it manly to pay to the sex, when
in fact, they are insultingly supporting their own superiority. It
is not condescension to bow to an inferior. So ludicrous, in fact,
do these ceremonies appear to me that I scarcely am able to govern
my muscles when I see a man with eager and serious solicitude to
lift a handkerchief or shut a door, when the lady could have done
it herself, had she only moved a pace or two.
A wild wish has just flown from my heart to my head, I will not
stifle it, though it may excite a horse-laugh. I do earnestly wish
to see the distinction of sex confounded in society, unless where
love animates the behaviour. For this distinction is, I am firmly
persuaded, the foundation of the weakness of character ascribed to
woman; is the cause why the understanding is neglected, whilst
accomplishments are acquired with sedulous care; and the same cause
accounts for their preferring the graceful before the heroic
virtues.
Mankind, including every description, wish to be loved and
respected by something, and the common herd will always take the
nearest road to the completion of their wishes. The respect paid to
wealth and beauty is the most certain and unequivocal, and, of
course, will always attract the vulgar eye of common minds.
Abilities and virtues are absolutely necessary to raise men from
the middle rank of life into notice, and the natural consequence is
notorious--the middle rank contains most virtue and abilities. Men
have thus, in one station at least, an opportunity of exerting
themselves with dignity, and of rising by the exertions which
really improve a rational creature; but the whole female sex are,
till their character is formed, in the same condition as the rich,
for they are born-- I now speak of a state of civilisation--with
certain sexual privileges; and whilst they are gratuitously granted
them, few will ever think of works of supererogation to obtain the
esteem of a small number of superior people.
When do we hear of women who, starting out of obscurity, boldly
claim respect on account of their great abilities or daring
virtues? Where are they to be found? "To be observed, to be
attended to, to be taken notice of with sympathy, complacency, and
approbation, are all the advantages which they seek." True! my male
readers will probably exclaim; but let them, before they draw any
conclusion, recollect that this was not written originally as
descriptive of women, but of the rich. In Dr. Smith's Theory of
Moral Sentiments I have found a general character of people of rank
and fortune, that, in my ; opinion, might with the greatest
propriety be applied to the female sex. I refer the sagacious
reader to the whole comparison, but must be allowed to quote a
passage to enforce an argument that I mean to insist on, as the one
most conclusive against a sexual character. For if, excepting
warriors no great men of any denomination have ever appeared
amongst the nobility, may it not be fairly inferred that their
local situation swallowed up the man, and produced a character
similar to that of women, who are localised--if I may be allowed
the word--by the rank they are placed in by courtesy? Women,
commonly called ladies, are not to be contradicted in company, are
not allowed to exert any manual strength; and from them the
negative virtues only are expected, when any virtues are
expected--patience, docility, good humour, and flexibility --
virtues incompatible with any vigorous exertion of intellect.
Besides, by living more with each other, and being seldom
absolutely alone, they are more under the influence of sentiments
than passions. Solitude and reflection are necessary to give to
wishes the force of passions, and to enable the imagination to
enlarge the object, and make it the most desirable. The same may be
said of the rich; they do not sufficiently deal in general ideas,
collected by impassioned thinking or calm investigation, to acquire
that strength of character on which great resolves are built. But
hear what an acute observer says of the great.
"Do the great seem insensible of the easy price at which they may
acquire the public admiration; or do they seem to imagine that to
them, as to other men, it must be the purchase either of sweat or
of blood? By what important accomplishments is the young nobleman
instructed to support the dignity of his rank, and to render
himself worthy of that superiority over his fellow-citizens, to
which the virtue of his ancestors had raised them? Is it by
knowledge, by industry, by patience, by self-denial, or by virtue
of any kind. As all his words, as all his motions are attended to,
he learns an habitual regard to every circumstance of ordinary
behaviour, and studies to perform all those small duties with the
most exact propriety. As he is conscious how much he is observed,
and how much mankind are disposed to favour all his inclinations,
he acts, upon the most indifferent occasions, with that freedom and
elevation which the thought of this naturally inspires. His air,
his manner, his deportment, all mark that elegant and graceful
sense of his own superiority, which those who are born to inferior
station can hardly ever arrive at. These are the arts by which he
proposes to make mankind more easily submit to his authority, and
to govern their inclinations according to his own pleasure; and in
this he is seldom disappointed. These arts, supported by rank and
pre-eminence, are, upon ordinary occasions, sufficient to govern
the world. Louis XIV during the greater part of his reign, was
regarded, not only in France, but over all Europe, as the most
perfect model of a great prince. But what were the talents and
virtues by which he acquired this great reputation? Was it by the
scrupulous and inflexible justice of all his undertakings, by the
immense dangers and difficulties with which they were attended, or
by the unwearied and unrelenting application with which he pursued
them? Was it by his extensive knowledge, by his exquisite judgment,
or by his heroic valour? It was by none of these qualities. But he
was, first of all, the most powerful prince in Europe. and
consequently held the highest rank among kings; and then, says his
historian, 'he surpassed all his courtiers in the gracefulness of
his shape, and the majestic beauty of his features. The sound of
his voice, noble and affecting, gained those hearts which his
presence intimidated. He had a step and a deportment which could
suit only him and his rank, and which would have been ridiculous in
any other person. The embarrassment which he occasioned to those
who spoke to him, flattered that secret satisfaction with which he
felt his own superiority.' These frivolous accomplishments,
supported by his rank, and, no doubt too, by a degree of other
talents and virtues, which seems, however, not to have been much
above mediocrity, established this prince in the esteem of his own
age, and have drawn, even from posterity, a good deal of respect
for his memory. Compared with these, in his own times, and in his
own presence, no other virtue, it seems, appeared to have any
merit. Knowledge, industry, valour, and beneficence trembled, were
abashed, and lost all dignity before them."
Woman also thus "in herself complete," by possessing all these
frivolous accomplishments, so changes the nature of things:
That what she wills to do or say'
Seems wisest, virtuousest, discreetest, best;
All higher knowledge in her knowledge falls
Degraded. Wisdom in discourse with her
Loses discountenanced, and, like folly shows;
Authority and reason on her wait.
And all this is built on her loveliness !
In the middle rank of life, to continue the comparison, men, in
their youth, are prepared for professions, and marriage is not
considered as the grand feature in their lives; whilst women, on
the contrary, have no other scheme to sharpen their faculties. It
is not business, extensive plans, or any of the excursive flights
of ambition, that engross their attention; no, their thoughts are
not employed in rearing such noble structures. To rise in the
world, and have the liberty of running from pleasure to pleasure,
they must marry advantageously, and to this object their time is
sacrificed, and their persons often legally prostituted. A man when
he enters any profession has his eye steadily fixed on some future
advantage (and the mind gains great strength by having all its
efforts directed to one point), and, full of his business, pleasure
is considered as mere relaxation; whilst women seek for pleasure as
the main purpose of existence. In fact, from the education, which
they receive from society, the love of pleasure may be said to
govern them all; but does this prove that there is a sex in souls?
It would be just as rational to declare that the courtiers in
France, when a destructive system of despotism had formed their
character, were not men, because liberty, virtue, and humanity,
were sacrificed to pleasure and vanity. Fatal passions, which have
ever domineered over the whole race !
The same love of pleasure, fostered by the whole tendency of their
education, gives a trifling turn to the conduct of women
in most circumstances; for instance, they are ever anxious about
secondary things; and on the watch for adventures instead of being
occupied by duties.
A man, when he undertakes a journey, has, in general, the end in
view; a woman thinks more of the incidental occurrences, the
strange things that may possibly occur on the road; the impression
that she may make on her fellow-travellers; and, above all, she is
anxiously intent on the care of the finery that she carries with
her, which is more than ever a part of herself, when going to
figure on a new scene; when, to use an apt French turn of
expression, she is going to produce a sensation. Can dignity of
mind exist with such trivial cares?
In short, women, in general, as well as the rich of both sexes,
have acquired all the follies and vices of civilisation, and missed
the useful fruit. It is not necessary for me always to premise,
that I speak of the condition of the whole sex, leaving exceptions
out of the question. Their senses are inflamed, and their
understandings neglected, consequently they become the prey of
their senses, delicately termed sensibility, and are blown about by
every momentary gust of feeling. Civilised women are, therefore, so
weakened by false refinement, that, respecting morals, their
condition is much below what it would be were they left in a state
nearer to nature. Ever restless and anxious, their over-exercised
sensibility not only renders them uncomfortable themselves, but
troublesome, to use a soft phrase, to others. All their thoughts
turn on things calculated to excite emotion and feeling, when they
should reason, their conduct is unstable, and their opinions are
wavering--not the wavering produced by deliberation or progressive
views, but by contradictory emotions. By fits and starts they are
warm in many pursuits; yet this warmth, never concentrated into
perseverance, soon exhausts itself; exhaled by its own heat, or
meeting with some other fleeting passion, to which reason has never
given any specific gravity, neutrality ensues. Miserable indeed,
must be that being whose cultivation of mind has only tended to
inflame its passions! A distinction should be made between
inflaming and strengthening them. The passions thus pampered,
whilst the judgment is left unformed, what can be expected to ensue
? Undoubtedly, a mixture of madness and folly!
This observation should not be confined to the fair sex; however,
at present, I only mean to apply it to them.
Novels, music, poetry, and gallantry, all tend to make women the
creatures of sensation, and their character is thus formed in the
mould of folly during the time they are acquiring accomplishments,
the only improvement they are excited, by their station in society,
to acquire. This overstretched sensibility naturally relaxes the
other powers of the mind, and prevents intellect from attaining
that sovereignty which it ought to attain to render a rational
creature useful to others, and content with its own station; for
the exercise of the understanding, as life advances, is the only
method pointed out by nature to calm the passions.
Satiety has a very different effect, and I have often been forcibly
struck by an emphatical description of damnation; when the spirit
is represented as continually hovering with abortive eagerness
round the defiled body, unable to enjoy anything without the organs
of sense. Yet, to their senses, are women made slaves, because it
is by their sensibility that they obtain present power.
And will moralists pretend to assert that this is the condition in
which one-half of the human race should be encouraged to remain
with listless inactivity and stupid acquiescence? Kind instructors!
what were we created for? To remain, it may be said, innocent; they
mean in a state of childhood We might as well never have been born,
unless it were necessary that we should be created to enable man to
acquire the noble privilege of reason, the power of discerning good
from evil, whilst we lie down in the dust from whence we were
taken, never to rise again.
It would be an endless task to trace the variety of meannesses,
cares, and sorrows, into which women are plunged by the prevailing
opinion, that they were created rather to feel than reason, and
that all the power they obtain must be obtained by their charms and
weakness:
Fine by defect, and amiably weak!
And, made by this amiable weakness entirely dependent, excepting
what they gain by illicit sway, on man, not only for protection,
but advice, is it surprising that, neglecting the duties that
reason alone points out, and shrinking from trials calculated to
strengthen their minds, they only exert themselves to give their
defects a graceful covering, which may serve to heighten their
charms in the eye of the voluptuary, though it sink them below the
scale of moral excellence.
Fragile in every sense of the word, they are obliged to look up to
man for every comfort. In the most trifling danger they cling to
their support, with parasitical tenacity, piteously demanding
succour; and their natural protector extends his arm, or lifts up
his voice, to guard the lovely trembler--from what? Perhaps the
frown of an old cow, or the jump of a mouse; a rat would be a
serious danger. In the name of reason, and even common sense, what
can save such beings from contempt; even though they be soft and
fair.
These fears, when not affected, may produce some pretty attitudes;
but they show a degree of imbecility which degrades a rational
creature in a way women are not aware of--for love and esteem are
very distinct things.
I am fully persuaded that we should hear of none of these infantine
airs, if girls were allowed to take sufficient exercise, and not
confined in close rooms till their muscles are relaxed, and their
powers of digestion destroyed. To carry the remark still further,
if fear in girls, instead of being cherished, perhaps, created,
were treated in the same manner as cowardice in boys, we should
quickly see women with more dignified aspects. It is true, they
could not then with equal propriety be termed the sweet flowers
that smile in the walk of man; but they would be more respectable
members of society, and discharge the important duties of life by
the light of their own reason. " Educate women like men," says
Rousseau, "and the more they resemble our sex the less power will
they have over us." This is the very point I aim at. I do not wish
them to have power over men; but over themselves.
In the same strain have I heard men argue against instructing the
poor; for many are the forms that aristocracy assumes. " Teach them
to read and write," say they, " and you take them out of the
station assigned them by nature." An eloquent Frenchman has
answered them, I will borrow his sentiments. " But they know not,
when they make man a brute, that they may expect every instant to
see him transformed into a ferocious beast. Without knowledge there
can be no morality."
Ignorance is a frail base for virtue ! Yet, that it is the
condition for which woman was organised, has been insisted upon by
the writers who have most vehemently argued in favour of the
superiority of man; a superiority not in degree, but offence;
though, to soften the argument, they have laboured to prove, with
chivalrous generosity, that the sexes ought not to be compared; man
was made to reason, woman to feel: and that together, flesh and
spirit, they make the most perfect whole, by blending happily
reason and sensibility into one character.
And what is sensibility? "Quickness of sensation, quickness of
perception, delicacy." Thus is it defined by Dr. Johnson. and the
definition gives me no other idea than of the most exquisitely
polished instinct. I discern not a trace of the image of God in
either sensation or matter. Refined seventy times seven they are
still material; intellect dwells not there; nor will fire ever make
lead gold !
I come round to my old argument: if woman be allowed to have an
immortal soul, she must have, as the employment of life, an
understanding to improve. And when, to render the present state
more complete, though everything proves it to be but a fraction of
a mighty sum, she is incited by present gratification to forget her
grand destination, nature is counteracted, or she was born only to
procreate and rot. Or, granting brutes of every description a soul,
though not a reasonable one the exercise of instinct and
sensibility may be the step which they are to take, in this life,
towards the attainment of reason in the next; so that through all
eternity they will lag behind man, who, why we cannot tell, had the
power given him of attaining reason in his first mode of existence.
When I treat of the peculiar duties of women, as I should treat of
the peculiar duties of a citizen or father, it will be found that
I do not mean to insinuate that they should be taken out of their
families, speaking of the majority. "He that hath wife and
children," says Lord Bacon, "hath given hostages to fortune; for
they are impediments to great enterprises, either of virtue or
mischief. Certainly the best works, and of greatest merit for the
public, have proceeded from the unmarried or childless men." I say
the same of women. But the welfare of society is not built on
extraordinary exertions; and were it more reasonably organised,
there would be still less need of great abilities, or heroic
virtues.
In the regulation of a family, in the education of children,
understanding, in an unsophisticated sense, is particularly
required-- strength both of body and mind; yet the men who, by
their writings, have most earnestly laboured to domesticate women,
have endeavoured, by arguments dictated by a gross appetite, which
satiety had rendered fastidious, to weaken their bodies and cramp
their minds. But, if even by these sinister methods they really
persuaded women, by working on their feelings, to stay at home, and
fulfil the duties of a mother and mistress of a family, I should
cautiously oppose opinions that led women to right conduct, by
prevailing on them to make the discharge of such important duties
the main business of life, though reason were insulted. Yet, and I
appeal to experience, if by neglecting the understanding they be as
much, nay, more detached from these domestic employments, than they
could be by the most serious intellectual pursuit, though it may be
observed, that the mass of mankind will never vigorously pursue an
intellectual object,[7] I may be allowed to infer that reason is
absolutely necessary to enable a woman to perform any duty
properly, and I must again repeat, that sensibility is not reason.
The comparison with the rich still occurs to me; for, when men
neglect the duties of humanity, women will follow their example; a
common stream hurries them both along with thoughtless celerity.
Riches and honours prevent a man from enlarging his understanding.
and enervate all his powers by reversing the order of nature, which
has ever made true pleasure the reward of labour. Pleasure
enervating pleasure--is, likewise, within women's reach without
earning it. But, till hereditary possessions are spread abroad, how
can we expect men to be proud of virtue? And, till they are, women
will govern them by the most direct means, neglecting their dull
domestic duties to catch the pleasure that sits lightly on the wing
of time.
"The power of the woman," says some author, "is her sensibility";
and men, not aware of the consequence, do all they can to make this
power swallow up every other. Those who constantly employ their
sensibility will have most; for example, poets, painters, and
composers.[8] Yet, when the sensibility is thus increased at the
expense of reason, and even the imagination, why do philosophical
men complain of their fickleness? The sexual attention of man
particularly acts on female sensibility, and this sympathy has been
exercised from their youth up. A husband cannot long pay those
attentions with the passion necessary to excite lively emotions,
and the heart, accustomed to lively emotions, turns to a new lover,
or pines in secret, the prey of virtue or prudence. I mean when the
heart has really been rendered susceptible, and the taste formed;
for I am apt to conclude, from what I have seen in fashionable
life, that vanity is oftener fostered than sensibility by the mode
of education, and the intercourse between the sexes, which I have
reprobated; and that coquetry more frequently proceeds from vanity
than from that inconstancy which overstrained sensibility naturally
produces.
Another argument that has had great weight with me must, I think,
have some force with every considerate benevolent heart. Girls who
have been thus weakly educated are often cruelly left by their
parents without any provision, and, of course, are dependent on not
only the reason, but the bounty of their brothers. These brothers
are, to view the fairest side of the question, good sort of men,
and give as a favour what children of the same parents had an equal
right to. In this equivocal humiliating situation a docile female
may remain some time with a tolerable degree of comfort. But when
the brother marries--a probable circumstance-- from being
considered as the mistress of the family, she is viewed with
averted looks as an intruder, an unnecessary burden on the
benevolence of the master of the house and his new partner.
Who can recount the misery which many unfortunate beings, whose
minds and bodies are equally weak, suffer in such situations--
unable to work, and ashamed to beg? The wife, a cold-hearted,
narrow-minded woman--and this is not an unfair supposition, for the
present mode of education does not tend to enlarge the heart any
more than the understanding--is jealous of the little kindness
which her husband shows to his relations; and her sensibility not
rising to humanity, she is displeased at seeing the property of her
children lavished on an helpless sister.
These are matters of fact, which have come under my eye again and
again. The consequence is obvious; the wife has recourse to cunning
to undermine the habitual affection which she is afraid openly to
oppose; and neither tears nor caresses are spared till the spy is
worked out of her home, and thrown on the world, unprepared for its
difficulties; or sent, as a great effort of generosity, or from
some regard to propriety, with a small stipend, and an uncultivated
mind, into joyless solitude.
These two women may be much upon a par with respect to reason and
humanity, and, changing situations, might have acted just the same
selfish part; but had they been differently educated, the case
would also have been very different. The wife would not have had
that sensibility, of which self is the centre, and reason might
have taught her not to expect, and not even to be flattered by, the
affection of her husband, led him to violate prior duties. She
would wish not to him merely because he loved her, but on account
of his virtues; and the sister might have been able to struggle for
herself instead of eating the bitter bread of dependence.
I am, indeed, persuaded that the heart, as well as the
understanding, is opened by cultivation, and by-- which may not
appear so clear-- strengthening the organs. I am not now talking of
momentary flashes of sensibility, but of affections. And, perhaps,
in the education of both sexes, the most difficult task is so to
adjust instruction as not to narrow the understanding, whilst the
heart is warmed by the generous juices of spring, just raised by
the electric fermentation of the season; nor to dry up the feelings
by employing the mind in investigations remote from life.
With respect to women, when they receive a careful education, they
are either made fine ladies, brimful of sensibility, and teeming
with capricious fancies, or mere notable women. The latter are
often friendly, honest creatures, and have a shrewd kind of good
sense, joined with worldly prudence, that often render them more
useful members of society than the fine sentimental lady, though
they possess neither greatness of mind nor taste. The intellectual
world is shut against them. Take them out of their family or
neighbourhood, and they stand still; the mind finding no
employment, for literature affords a fund of amusement which they
have never sought to relish, but frequently to despise. The
sentiments and taste of more cultivated minds appear ridiculous,
even in those whom chance and family connections have led them to
love; but in mere acquaintance they think it all affectation.
A man of sense can only love such a woman on account of her sex,
and respect her because she is a trusty servant. He lets her, to
preserve his own peace, scold the servants, and go to church in
clothes made of the very best materials. A man of her own size of
understanding would probably not agree sa well with her, for he
might wish to encroach on her prerogative, and manage some domestic
concerns himself; yet women, whose minds are not enlarged by
cultivation, or the natural selfishness of sensibility by
reflection, are very unfit to manage a family, for, by an undue
stretch of power, they are always tyrannising to support a
superiority that only rests on the arbitrary distinction of
fortune. The evil is sometimes more serious, and domestics are
deprived of innocent indulgences, and made to work beyond their
strength, in order to enable the notable woman to keep a better
table, and outshine her neighbours in finery and parade. If she
attend to her children, it is in general to dress them in a costly
manner; and whether this attention arise from vanity or fondness,
it is equally pernicious.
Besides, how many women of this description pass their days, or at
least their evenings, discontentedly. Their husbands acknowledge
that they are good managers and chaste wives, but leave home to
seek for more agreeable--may I be allowed to use a significant
French word--piquant society; and the patient drudge, who fulfils
her task like a blind horse in a mill, is defrauded of her just
reward, for the wages due to her are the caresses of her husband;
and women who have so few resources in themselves, do not very
patiently bear this privation of a natural right.
A fine lady, on the contrary, has been taught to look down with
contempt on the vulgar employments of life, though she has only
been incited to acquire accomplishments that rise a degree above
sense; for even corporeal accomplishments cannot be acquired with
any degree of precision unless the understanding has been
strengthened by exercise. Without a foundation of principles taste
is superficial; grace must arise from something deeper than
imitation. The imagination, however, is heated, and the feelings
rendered fastidious, if not sophisticated, or a counterpoise of
judgment is not acquired when the heart still remains artless,
though it becomes too tender.
These women are often amiable, and their hearts are really more
sensible to general benevolence, more alive to the sentiments that
civilise life, than the square-elbowed family drudge; but, wanting
a due proportion of reflection and self-government, they only
inspire love, and are the mistresses of their husbands, whilst they
have any hold on their affections, and the Platonic friends of his
male acquaintance. These are the fair defects in Nature; the women
who appear to be created not to enjoy the fellowship of man, but to
save him from sinking into absolute brutality, by rubbing off the
rough angles of his character, and by playful dalliance to give
some dignity to the appetite that draws him to them. Gracious
Creator of the whole human race! hast Thou created such a being as
woman, who can trace Thy wisdom in Thy works, and feel that Thou
alone art by Thy nature exalted above her, for no better purpose?
Can she believe that she was only made to submit to man, her
equal--a being who, like her, was sent into the world to acquire
virtue? Can she consent to be occupied merely to please him--merely
to adorn the earth--when her soul is capable of rising to Thee? And
can she rest supinely dependent on man for reason, when she ought
to mount with him the arduous steeps of knowledge?
Yet if love be the supreme good, let woman be only educated to
inspire it, and let every charm be polished to intoxicate the
senses; but if they be moral beings, let them have a chance to
become intelligent; and let love to man be only a part of that
glowing flame of universal love, which, after encircling humanity,
mounts in grateful incense to God.
To fulfil domestic duties much resolution is necessary, and a
serious kind of perseverance that requires a more firm support than
emotions, however lively and true to nature. To give an example of
order, the soul of virtue, some austerity of behaviour must be
adopted, scarcely to be expected from a being who, from its
infancy, has been made the weathercock of its own sensations.
Whoever rationally means to be useful must have a plan of conduct;
and in the discharge of the simplest duty, we are often obliged to
act contrary to the present impulse of tenderness or compassion.
Severity is frequently the most certain as well as the most sublime
proof of affection; and the want of this power over the feelings,
and of that lofty, dignified affection which makes a person prefer
the future good of the beloved object to a present gratification,
is the reason why so many fond mothers spoil their children,
and-has made it questionable whether negligence or indulgence be
most hurtful; but I am inclined to think that the latter has done
most harm.
Mankind seem to agree that children should be left under the
management of women during their childhood. Now, from all the
observation that I have been able to make, women of sensibility are
the most unfit for this task, because they will infallibly, carried
away by their feelings, spoil a child's temper. The management of
the temper, the first, and most important branch of education,
requires the sober steady eye of reason; a plan of conduct equally
distant from tyranny and indulgence: yet these are the extremes
that people of sensibility alternately fall into; always shooting
beyond the mark. I have followed this train of reasoning much
further, till I have concluded, that a person of genius is the most
improper person to be employed in education, public or private.
Minds of this rare species see things too much in masses, and
seldom, if ever, have a good temper. That habitual cheerfulness,
termed good humour, is perhaps, as seldom united with great mental
powers, as with strong feelings. And those people who follow, with
interest and admiration, the flights of genius; or, with cooler
approbation suck in the instruction which has been elaborately
prepared for them by the profound thinker, ought not to be
disgusted, if they find the former choleric, and the latter morose;
because liveliness of fancy, and a tenacious comprehension of mind,
are scarcely compatible with that pliant urbanity which leads a
man, at least, to bend to the opinions and prejudices of others,
instead of roughly confronting them.
But, treating of education or manners, minds of a superior class
are not to be considered, they may be left to chance; it is the
multitude, with moderate abilities, who call for instruction, and
catch the colour of the atmosphere they breathe. This respectable
concourse, I contend, men and women, should not have their
sensations heightened in the hot-bed of luxurious indolence, at the
expense of their understanding; for, unless there be a ballast of
understanding, they will never become either virtuous or free: an
aristocracy, founded on property or sterling talents, will ever
sweep before it the alternately timid and ferocious slaves of
feeling.
Numberless are the arguments, to take another view of the subject,
brought forward with a show of reason, because supposed to be
deduced from nature, that men have used morally and physically, to
degrade the sex. I must notice a few.
The female understanding has often been spoken of with contempt, as
arriving sooner at maturity than the male. I shall not answer this
argument by alluding to the early proofs of reason, as well as
genius, in Cowley, Milton, and Pope,[9] but only appeal to
experience
to decide whether young men, who are early introduced into company
(and examples now abound), do not acquire the same precocity. So
notorious is this fact, that the bare mentioning of it must bring
before people, who at all mix in the world, the idea of a number of
swaggering apes of men, whose understandings are narrowed by being
brought into the society of men when they ought to have been
spinning a top or twirling a hoop.
It has also been asserted, by some naturalists, that men do not
attain their full growth and strength till thirty; but that women
arrive at maturity by twenty. I apprehend that they reason on false
ground, led astray by the male prejudice, which deems beauty the
perfection of woman--mere beauty of features 'and complexion, the
vulgar acceptation of the word, whilst male beauty is allowed to
have some connection with the mind. Strength of body, and that
character of countenance which the French term a physionomic, women
do not acquire before thirty, any more than men. The little artless
tricks of children, it is true, are particularly pleasing and
attractive; yet, when the pretty freshness of youth is worn off,
these artless graces become studied airs, and disgust every person
of taste. In the countenance of girls we only look for vivacity and
bashful modesty; but, the spring tide of life over, we look for
soberer sense in the face, and for traces of passion, instead of
the dimples of animal spirits; expecting to see individuality of
character, the only fastener of the affections.[10] We then wish to
converse, not to fondle; to give scope to our imaginations as well
as to the sensations of our hearts.
At twenty the beauty of both sexes is equal; but the libertinism of
man leads him to make the distinction, and superannuated coquettes
are commonly of the same opinion; for when they can no longer
inspire love, they pay for the vigour and vivacity of youth. The
French, who admit more of mind into their notions of beauty, give
the preference to women of thirty. I mean to say that they allow
women to be in their most perfect state, when vivacity gives place
to reason, and to that majestic seriousness of character, which
marks maturity or the resting point. In youth, till twenty, the
body shoots out, till thirty, the solids are attaining a degree of
density; and the flexible muscles, growing daily more rigid, give
character to the countenance; that is, they trace the operations of
the mind with the iron pen of fate, and tell us not only what
powers are within, hut how they have been employed.
It is proper to observe, that animals who arrive slowly at
maturity, are the longest lived, and of the noblest species. Men
cannot, however, claim any natural superiority from the grandeur of
longevity; for in this respect nature has not distinguished the
male.
Polygamy is another physical degradation; and a plausible argument
for a custom, that blasts every domestic virtue, is drawn from the
well-attested fact, that in the countries where it is established,
more females are born than males. This appears to be an indication
of nature, and to nature, apparently reasonable speculations must
yield. A further conclusion obviously presented itself; if polygamy
be necessary, woman must be inferior to man, and made for him.
With respect to the formation of the fetus in the womb, we are very
ignorant; but it appears to me probable, that an accidental
physical cause may account for this phenomenon, and prove it not to
be a law of nature. I have met with some pertinent observations on
the subject in Foster's Account of the Isles of the South Sea, that
will explain my meaning. After observing that of the two sexes
amongst animals, the most vigorous and hottest constitution always
prevails, and produces its kind; he adds,--"If this be applied to
the inhabitants of Africa, it is evident that the men there,
accustomed to polygamy, are enervated by the use of so many women,
and therefore less vigorous; the women, on the contrary, are of a
hotter constitution, not only on account of their more irritable
nerves, more sensible organisation, and more lively fancy; but
likewise because they are deprived in their matrimony of that share
of physical love which, in a monogamous condition, would all be
theirs; and thus, for the above reasons, the generality of the
children are born females.
"In the greater part of Europe it has been proved by the most
accurate lists of mortality, that the proportion of men to women is
nearly equal, or, if any difference takes place, the males born are
more numerous, in the proportion of 105 to 100."
The necessity of polygamy, therefore, does not appear; yet when a
man seduces a woman, it should, I think, be termed a left-handed
marriage, and the man should be legally obliged to maintain the
woman and her children, unless adultery, a natural divorcement,
abrogated the law. And this law should remain in force as long as
the weakness of women caused the word seduction to be used as an
excuse for their frailty and want of principle; nay, while they
depend on man for a subsistence, instead of earning it by the
exertion of their own hands or heads. But these women should not,
in the full meaning of the relationship, be termed wives, or the
very purpose of marriage would be subverted, and all those
endearing charities that flow from personal fidelity, and give a
sanctity to the tie, when neither love nor friendship unites the
hearts, would melt into selfishness. The woman who is faithful to
the father of her children demands respect, and should not be
treated like a prostitute; though I readily grant that if it be
necessary for a man and woman to live together in order to bring up
their offspring, nature never intended that a man should have more
than one wife.
Still, highly as I respect marriage, as the foundation of almost
every social virtue, I cannot avoid feeling the most lively
compassion for those unfortunate females who are broken off from
society, and by one error torn from all those affections and
relationships that improve the heart and mind. It does not
frequently even deserve the name of error; for many innocent girls
become the dupes of a sincere, affectionate heart, and still more
are, as it may emphatically be termed, ruined before they know the
difference between virtue and vice, and thus prepared by their
education for infamy, they become infamous. Asylums and Magdalens
are not the proper remedies for these abuses. It is justice, not
charity, that is wanting in the world!
A woman who has lost her honour imagines that she cannot fall
lower, and as for recovering her former station, it is impossible;
no exertion can wash this stain away. Losing, thus every spur, and
having no other means of support, prostitution becomes her only
refuge, and the character is quickly depraved by circumstances over
which the poor wretch has little power, unless she possesses an
uncommon portion of sense and loftiness of spirit. Necessity never
makes prostitution the business of men's lives; though numberless
are the women who are thus rendered systematically vicious. This,
however, arises in a great degree from the state of idleness in
which women are educated, who are always taught to look up to man
for a maintenance, and to consider their persons as the proper
return for his exertions to support them. Meretricious airs, and
the whole science of wantonness, have then a more powerful stimulus
than either appetite or vanity; and this remark gives force to the
prevailing opinion, that with chastity all is lost that is
respectable in woman. Her character depends on the observance of
one virtue, though the only passion fostered in her heart is love.
Nay, the honour of a woman is not made even to depend on her will.
When Richardson [11] makes Clarissa tell Lovelace that he had
robbed her of her honour, he must have had strange notions of
honour and virtue. For, miserable beyond all names of misery is the
condition of a being, who could be degraded without its own
consent! This excess of strictness I have heard vindicated as a
salutary error. I shall answer in the words of have more
Leibnitz--" Errors are often useful; but it is commonly to remedy
other errors."
Most of the evils of life arise from a desire of present enjoyment
that outruns itself. The obedience required of women in the
marriage state comes under this description; the mind, naturally
weakened by depending on authority, never exerts its own powers,
and the obedient wife is thus rendered a weak indolent mother. Or,
supposing that this is not always the consequence, a future state
of existence is scarcely taken into the reckoning when only
negative virtues are cultivated. For, in treating of morals,
particularly when women are alluded to, writers have too often
considered virtue in a very limited sense, and made the foundation
of it solely worldly utility; nay, a still more fragile base has
been given to this stupendous fabric, and the wayward fluctuating
feelings of men have been made the standard of virtue. Yes, virtue
as well as religion has been subjected to the decisions of taste.
It would almost provoke a smile of contempt, if the vain
absurdities of man did not strike us on all sides, to observe how
eager men are to degrade the sex from whom they pretend to receive
the chief pleasure of life; and I have frequently with full
conviction retorted Pope's sarcasm on them; or, to speak
explicitly, it has appeared to me applicable to the whole human
race. A love of pleasure or sway seems to divide mankind, and the
husband who lords it in his little harem thinks only of his
pleasure or his convenience. To such lengths, indeed, does an
intemperate love of pleasure carry some prudent men, or worn-out
libertines, who marry to have a safe bedfellow, that they seduce
their own wives. Hymen banishes modesty, and chaste love takes its
flight.
Love, considered as an animal appetite, cannot long feed on itself
without expiring. And this extinction in its own flame may be
termed the violent death of love. But the wife, who has thus been
rendered licentious, will probably endeavour to fill the void left
by the loss of her husband's attentions; for she cannot contentedly
become merely an upper servant after having been treated like a
goddess. She is still handsome, and, instead of transferring her
fondness to her children, she only dreams of enjoying the sunshine
of life. Besides, there are many husbands so devoid of sense and
parental affection that, during the first effervescence of
voluptuous fondness, they refuse to let their wives suckle their
children. They are only to dress and live to please them, and love,
even innocent love, soon sinks into lasciviousness when the
exercise of a duty is sacrificed to its indulgence.
Personal attachment is a very happy foundation for friendship; yet,
when even two virtuous young people marry, it would perhaps be
happy if some circumstances checked their passion; if the
recollection of some prior attachment, or disappointed affection,
made it on one side, at least, rather a match founded on esteem. In
that case they would look beyond the present moment, and try to
render the whole of life respectable, by forming a plan to regulate
a friendship which only death ought to dissolve.
Friendship is a serious affection; the most sublime of all
affections, because it is founded on principle, and cemented by
time. The very reverse may be said of love. In a great degree, love
and friendship cannot subsist in the same bosom; even when inspired
by different objects they weaken or destroy each other, and for the
same object can only be felt in succession. The vain fears and fond
jealousies, the winds which fan the flame of love, when judiciously
or artfully tempered, are both incompatible with the tender
confidence and sincere respect of friendship.
Love, such as the glowing pen of genius has traced, exists not on
earth, or only resides in those exalted, fervid imaginations that
have sketched such dangerous pictures. Dangerous, because they not
only afford a plausible excuse to the voluptuary, who disguises
sheer sensuality under a sentimental veil; but as they spread
affectation, and take from the dignity of virtue. Virtue, as the
very word imports, should have an appearance of seriousness, if not
of austerity; and to endeavour to trick her out in the garb of
pleasure, because the epithet has been used as another name for
beauty, is to exalt her on a quicksand; a most insidious attempt to
hasten her fall by apparent respect. Virtue and pleasure are not,
in fact, so nearly allied in this life as some eloquent writers
have laboured to prove. Pleasure prepares the fading wreath, and
mixes the intoxicating cup; but the fruit which virtue gives is the
recompense of toil, and, gradually seen as it ripens, only affords
calm satisfaction; nay, appearing to be the result of the natural
tendency of things, it is scarcely observed. Bread, the common food
of life, seldom thought of as a blessing, supports the constitution
and preserves health; still feasts delight the heart of man, though
disease and even death lurk in the cup or dainty that elevates the
spirits or tickles the palate. The lively heated imagination
likewise, to apply the comparison, draws the picture of love, as it
draws every other picture, with those glowing colours, which the
daring hand will steal from the rainbow, that is directed by a
mind, condemned in a world like this, to prove its noble origin by
panting after unattainable perfection, ever pursuing what it
acknowledges to be a fleeting dream. An imagination of this
vigorous cast can give existence to insubstantial forms, and
stability to the shadowy reveries which the mind naturally falls
into when realities are found vapid. It can then depict love with
celestial charms, and dote on the grand ideal object--it can
imagine a degree of mutual affection that shall refine the soul,
and not expire when it has served as a "scale to heavenly"; and,
like devotion, make it absorb every meaner affection and desire. In
each other's arms, as in a temple, with its summit lost in the
clouds, the world is to be shut out, and every thought and wish
that do not nurture pure affection and permanent virtue. Permanent
virtue! alas! Rousseau, respectable visionary! thy paradise would
soon be violated by the entrance of some unexpected guest. Like
Milton's it would only contain angels, or men sunk below the
dignity of rational creatures. Happiness is not material, it cannot
be seen or felt! Yet the eager pursuit of the good, which everyone
shapes to his own fancy, proclaims man the lord of this lower
world, and to be an intelligential creature, who is not to receive
but acquire happiness. They, therefore, who com- plain of the
delusions of passion, do not recollect that they are exclaiming
against a strong proof of the immortality of the soul.
But leaving superior minds to correct themselves, and pay dearly
for their experience, it is necessary to observe, that it is not
against strong, persevering passions, but romantic wavering
feelings, that I wish to guard the female heart by exercising the
understanding: for these paradisiacal reveries are oftener the
effect of idleness than of a lively fancy.
Women have seldom sufficient serious employment to silence their
feelings; a round of little cares, or vain pursuits frittering away
all strength of mind and organs, they become naturally only objects
of sense. In short, the whole tenor of female education (the
education of society) tends to render the best disposed romantic
and inconstant; and the remainder vain and mean. In the present
state of society this evil can scarcely be remedied, I am afraid,
in the slightest degree; should a more laudable ambition ever gain
ground they may be brought nearer to nature and reason, and become
more virtuous and useful as they grow more respectable.
But, I will venture to assert that their reason will never acquire
sufficient strength to enable it to regulate their conduct, whilst
the making an appearance in the world is the first wish of the
majority of mankind. To this weak wish the natural affections, and
the most useful virtues are sacrificed. Girls marry merely to
better themselves, to borrow a significant vulgar phrase, and have
such perfect power over their hearts as not to permit themselves to
fall in love till a man with a superior fortune offers. on this
subject I mean to enlarge in a future chapter; it is only necessary
to drop a hint at present, because women are so often degraded by
suffering the selfish prudence of age to chill the ardour of youth.
From the same source flows an opinion that young girls ought to
dedicate great part of their time to needlework; yet, this
employment contracts their faculties more than any other that could
have been chosen for them, by confining their thoughts to their
persons. Men order their clothes to be made, and have done with the
subject; women make their own clothes, necessary or ornamental, and
are continually talking about them; and their thoughts follow their
hands. It is not indeed the making of necessaries that weakens the
mind; but the frippery of dress. For, when a woman in the lower
rank of life makes her husband's and children's clothes, she does
her duty, this is her part of the family business; but when women
work only to dress better than they could otherwise afford, it is
worse than sheer loss of time. To render the poor virtuous they
must be employed, and women in the middle rank of life, did they
not ape the fashions of the nobility, without catching their ease,
might employ them, whilst they themselves managed their families,
instructed their children, and exercised their own minds.
Gardening, experimental philosophy, and literature, would afford
them subjects to think of and matter for conversation, that in some
degree would exercise their understandings. The conversation of
Frenchwomen, who are not so rigidly nailed to their chairs to twist
lappets, and knot ribands, is frequently superficial; but, I
contend, that it is not half so insipid as that of those
Englishwomen whose time is spent in making caps, bonnets, and the
whole mischief of trimmings, not to mention shopping,
bargain-hunting, etc., etc.; and it is the decent, prudent women,
who are most degraded by these practices; for their motive is
simply vanity. The wanton who exercises her taste to render her
passion alluring, has something more in view.
These observations all branch out of a general one, which I have
before made, and which cannot be too often insisted upon, for,
speaking of men, women, or professions, it will be found that the
employment of the thoughts shapes the character both generally and
individually. The thoughts of women ever hover round their persons,
and is it surprising that their persons are reckoned most valuable?
Yet some degree of liberty of mind is necessary even to form the
person; and this may be one reason why some gentle wives have so
few attractions beside that of sex. Add to this, sedentary
employments render the majority of women sickly--and false notions
of female excellence make them proud of this delicacy, though it be
another fetter, that by calling the attention continually to the
body, cramps the activity of the mind.
Women of quality seldom do any of the manual part of their dress,
consequently only their taste is exercised, and they acquire, by
thinking less of the finery, when the business of their toilet is
over, that ease, which seldom appears in the deportment of women,
who dress merely for the sake of dressing. In fact, the observation
with respect to the middle rank, the one in which talents thrive
best, extends not to women; for those of the superior class, by
catching, at least, a smattering of literature, and conversing more
with men, on general topics, acquire more knowledge than the women
who ape their fashions and faults without sharing their advantages.
With respect to virtue, to use the word in a comprehensive sense,
I have seen most in low life. Many poor women maintain their
children by the sweat of their brow, and keep together families
that the vices of the fathers would have scattered abroad; but
gentlewomen are too indolent to be actively virtuous, and are
softened rather than refined by civilisation. Indeed, the good
sense which I have met with, among the poor women who have had few
advantages of education, and yet have acted heroically, strongly
confirmed me in the opinion that trifling employments have rendered
woman a trifler. Man, taking her [12] body, the mind is left to
rust; so that while physical love enervates man, as being his
favourite recreation, he will endeavour to enslave woman:--and, who
can tell, how many generations may be necessary to give vigour to
the virtue and talents of the freed posterity of abject slaves?[13]
In tracing the causes that, in my opinion, have degraded woman, I
have confined my observations to such as universally act upon the
morals and manners of the whole sex, and to me it appears clear
that they all spring from want of understanding. Whether this arise
from a physical or accidental weakness of faculties, time alone can
determine; for I shall not lay any great stress on the example of
a few women [14] who, from having received a masculine education,
have acquired courage and resolution; I only contend that the men
who have been placed in similar situations, have acquired a similar
character--I speak of bodies of men, and that men of genius and
talents have started out of a class, in which women have never yet
been placed.
[1] Into what inconsistencies do men fall when thy argue without
the compass of principles. Women, weak women, are compared with
angels; yet, a superior order of beings should be supposed to
possess more intellect than man; or, in what does their superiority
consist? In the same strain, to drop the sneer, they are allowed to
possess more goodness of heart; piety, and benevolence. I doubt the
fact, though it be courteously brought forward, unless ignorance be
allowed to be the mother of devotion; for I am firmly persuaded
that, on an average, the proportion between virtue and knowledge,
is more upon a par than is commonly granted.
[2] "The brutes," says Lord Monboddo, "remain in the states in
which nature has placed them, except in so far as their natural
instinct is improved by the culture we bestow upon them."
[3] Vide Milton.
[4] This word is not stricly just, but I cannot find a better.
[5] "Pleasure's the portion of th' inferior kind;
But glory, virtue, Heaven for man designed."
After writing these lines, how could Mrs. Barbauld write the
following ignoble comparison?
"To a Lady with Some Painted Flowers
"Flowers to the fair: to you these flowers I bring,
And strive to greet you with an earlier spring.
Flowers, sweet, and gay, and delicate like you;
Emblems of innocence, and beauty too
With flowers the Graces bind their yellow hair
And flowery wreaths consenting lovers wear.
Flowers, the sole luxury which Nature knew,
In Eden's pure and guiltless garden grew.
To loftiers forms are rougher tasks assign'd;
The sheltering oak resists the stromy wind,
The tougher yew repels invading foes,
And the tall pine for future navies grows;
But this soft family, to cares unknown,
Were born for pleasure and delights alone.
Gay without toil, and lovely without art,
They spring to cheer the sense, and glad the heart.
Nor blush, my fair, to own you copy these;
Your best, you sweetest empire is -- to please."
So the men tell us; but virtue, says reason, must be acquired by
rough toils, and useful struggles with worldly cares.
[6] And a wit always a wit, might be added, for the vain fooleries
of wits and beauties to obtain attention, and make conquests, are
much upon a par.
[7] The mass of mankind are rather the slaves of their appetites
than of their passions.
[8] Men of these descriptions pour sensibility into their
compositions, to amalgamate the gross materials; and moulding them
with passion, give to the inert body a soul; but in woman's
imagination, love alone concentrates these ethereal beams.
[9] Many other names might be added.
[10] The strength of an affection is, generally, in the same
proportion as the character of the species in the object beloved,
lost in that of the individual.
[11] Dr. Young supports the same opinion, in his plays, when he
talks of the misfortune that shunned the light of day.
[12] "I take her body," says Ranger.
[13] "Supposing that women are voluntary slaves -- slavery of any
kind is unfavourable to human happiness and improvement." --Knox's
Essays.
[14] Sappho, Eloisa, Mrs. Macauly, the Empress of Russia, Madame
d'Eon, etc. These, and many more, may be reckoned exceptions; and
are not all heroes, as well as heroines, exceptions to general
rules? I wish to see women neither heroines nor brutes; but
reasonable creatures.
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