Though they are reluctant to admit it, most college students care what their families think. A simple, straightforward, and non-judgmental expression of support from you may be the most important step in helping that student get back on track. We recommend that you do talk with your student if you are concerned. Tell them specifically what you have observed ("you seem quiet" or "you didn't laugh as much as usual last weekend" or "we noticed you were staring into space a lot"). This will help them understand that you noticed a change in their behavior and are interested in their life. Even more important, let them know that you are available to listen and that you understand that college can be tough. Remind them that you want what is best for them and that you will support them even if they stumble.
