Resources for Survivors
If you experience a sexual assault:
- Get to a safe place immediately.
- Contact someone who can help you right now: such as a friend, family member, the police or any resources listed in this site.
- Consider seeking medical attention as soon as possible. Even if you do not want to report this to the police, you may benefit from medical attention. You will have the option of completing a "rape kit" to collect evidence in case you decide to report the assault at a later date. It is highly suggested that you bring a change of clothing in the event that you choose to have medical personnel collect evidence.
- If you want to report the assault to the police or ask that evidence is collected at the hospital, do not shower, bathe, douche, wash your hands, brush your teeth, comb your hair, or use the toilet. Even though you may desperately want to clean yourself, you may destroy important evidence if you do so.
- Consider finding emotional support for yourself from a professional counselor. Ask if the counselor has experience working with survivors of sexual assault. Ask for a referral if they don't.
Possible reactions following a sexual assault:
Every survivor experiences the consequences of rape or sexual assault in their own unique manner. Many survivors have reported that they experienced feelings of severe emotional and physical violation, which affected many areas of their lives. Some effects may be noticed immediately, other effects may show up later and reactions often include:
- Loss of trust
- Fear
- Guilt
- Shame
- Depression, sadness or self-anger
- Changes in sexual behaviors and comfort with sex
- Loss of a sense of control
- Changes in relationships with other people
How long will it take to get over this?
Survivors often feel overwhelmed
and lost as a result of sexual assault. Although there are no exact
time limits to recovery, the
good news is
that survivors CAN recover. Talking about experiences and feelings
with someone is one part of recovery. Survivors have the right
and the power
to regain control of their lives. Remember, rape is NEVER the
fault of the survivor. Even if you believe you could have avoided the
situation,
you are not responsible - if your choices were taken away, so
was
your responsibility.
Whom should I tell?
It is a difficult and personal decision whether
or not to report a rape. Several options are available to survivors.
Some include
official legal
reporting, while others are more informal and allow the survivor
to discuss options before committing to an official report.
Resources for survivors:
Survivors are not alone and there are many sources
of support and help available.
OSU Sexual Assault Support Services is a team of trained and experienced
counselors and psychologists who can provide consultation regarding
support options and what to do next, advocacy for survivors who need
help navigating
the university system, and crisis or ongoing counseling support if
desired. Sexual Assault Support services also provides educational
programs and
training, and will consult with friends or family of survivors as needed.
Sexual Assault Support Services Coordinator: 737-7604
Center Against Rape and Domestic Violence (CARDV) has trained volunteers
available 24 hours a day to take calls, provide support, and extend
their services to survivors of rape, sexual assault, or domestic violence.
They can assist survivors in finding other resources they may need.
CARDV Hotline: 754-0110, 1-800-927-0197
University Disciplinary Procedures: Survivors of sexual
misconduct are encouraged to report the incident to the Coordinator
of the
OSU Student Conduct and Mediation Program. The Coordinator will discuss
options with the survivor, including the formal campus disciplinary
process or informal options such as mediation, contact restrictions,
or alternative
sanctions. Campus disciplinary hearings are less formal and involve
fewer people than criminal hearings. The survivor may be accompanied
by a support
person during the hearing and will be informed of the outcome. In addition
to the campus disciplinary process, survivors may wish to pursue criminal
charges with the Corvallis or Oregon State Police and the Benton County
District Attorney's Office, or seek civil damages in court. OSU
Student Conduct and Mediation: 737-3658
Reporting to the Police: It is the survivor's decision
whether to report a rape to the police and press charges. If the rape
is reported to
the police within 72 hours and the survivor agrees to cooperate in
the investigation,
she or he is entitled to victims' compensation in the state of Oregon.
Survivors who choose to report a rape to the police have the right
to have a support person with them throughout the process, whether
that
is a friend, attorney, or an advocate from the Center Against Rape
and Domestic Violence (CARDV). Oregon State Police (OSU Campus):
737-3010; City of Corvallis Police: 911 or 766-6924; or Benton County
Sheriff: 766-6858.