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What's Your Dating Rating?

Take our Dating Rating quiz and find out if you might be in danger of experiencing dating violence.

Quiz

1. When you are on a date, do you...

a. take the lead and make the decisions
b. let the other person make the choices
c. make a shared decision on what to do

2. If your date spends a lot of money on you, do you think...
a. you should have sex with your date
b. you should at least kiss your date
c. you owe your date nothing

3. In a dating relationship, do you believe that...

a. you should make the first move
b. you should let your date make the first move
c. both people should talk about it and decide together

4. If you are kissing and touching a lot on a date, do you feel that...

a. your date wants to have sex
b. you have to follow through with your date's wishes
c. it should stay at that point unless both agree on more

If you answered "C" to all the questions then you scored high on mutual respect and consideration. If both you and your date follow these beliefs then it is likely that both of you will have a safe and enjoyable time.

If you answered "A" or "B" to the questions then you may be uncomfortable asserting your needs and wishes and may be at risk for dating violence.

To find out more about dating violence and how you can prevent it, check out our section on intimate partner violence.

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