Adjusting to Life in the US
What is Culture Shock?
Cultural adjustment is a process an individual has to go through to be
able to work effectively and live comfortably in a place that is new
and unfamiliar to them. Living in a new culture requires you to learn a
new set of cultural patterns and behaviors. This process can be very
challenging and sometimes uncomfortable. There are generally three main
types of cultural adjustment*.
CULTURE SURPRISE usually occurs during the first few days of your visit as you initially become aware of superficial differences. Examples: people dress differently, signs are in a different language, nonverbal behaviors are different.
CULTURE STRESS is a fairly short-term response to "stimulus overload." This occurs when you begin to respond to the behavior of the "new" culture. Examples: trying to drive a car, doing your own shopping, hearing comments about yourself.
CULTURE SHOCK is a normal, healthy psychological reaction to the stress of living in a different culture. You experience feelings of tension and anxiety because you have lost familiar cultural cues. Your actions do not always get you what you want. And your inability to communicate effectively with others is frustrating.
*Janet and Milton Bennett, 1999
At some point during the cultural adjustment process, you will probably
experience culture shock. Culture shock is caused by the stress of
being in a new culture and is a normal part of adjusting to a new
place. When you live in a new culture, your own values are continually
brought into question. Also, you are cut off from the cultural clues
and known patterns with which you are familiar. Kalvero Oberg, the man
first credited with diagnosing culture shock, describes it this way:
“These signs and clues include the thousand and one ways in which we
orient ourselves to the situations of daily life: when to shake hands
and what to say when we meet people, when and how to give tips…how to
make purchases, when to accept and when to refuse invitations, when to
take statements seriously and when not…”
You will probably not just wake up one morning and say, “Oh, I am
experiencing culture shock!” It is a gradual, cumulative process that
builds up slowly. It is important to recognize the symptoms of culture
shock so you can be better prepared for it.
Some Symptoms of Culture Shock:
- Anxiety Crying a lot
- Irritability Hopelessness
- Homesickness Distrust of hosts
- Depression Withdrawal
- Fatigue Stereotyping
- Boredom Self-doubt
- Avoiding contact with host nationals Difficulty studying effectively
Not everyone experiences culture shock in the same way. You may have
difficulty sleeping while your friend sleeps most of the time. You may
experience many of the symptoms listed above or only a few of them. The
most important thing to remember is that culture shock is a normal part
of the adjustment process. If your symptoms are severe, be sure to let
others know how you are feeling. Talk to a friend, an international
student advisor, or a counselor in the counseling center. You do not
have to be alone!
What You Can Do to Help Fight Culture Shock:
1. Realize that culture shock is a natural part of adjusting to a new
culture. Practically everyone who lives abroad experiences culture
shock to some degree—you are not alone. If you are familiar with the
symptoms of culture shock and anticipate them, you will have an easier
time adjusting.
2. Don’t be afraid to share your feelings with others. Talk to other
international students about what you are feeling and experiencing. You
will probably find that others can relate to how you are feeling.
3. Become involved in activities on campus or in the community. This is
a good way to meet people and will help enrich your time in the United
States. If you feel uncomfortable joining a program or activity, ask a
friend to come with you.
4. Develop a “support system.” Being away from family and friends who
normally support you can be difficult. It is important to connect with
others who can provide you support.
5. Take care of yourself. Living in a foreign country can be very
stressful on your body. Remember to get plenty of rest, eat well, and
exercise. Join an intramural sport, try out Dixon Recreation Center,
cook your favorite dish from your country, or try the local ethnic
grocery stores.
6. Take some “time out.” Speaking a foreign language all day can be
very exhausting! Remember to spend some quiet time each day reading a
book or listening to music in your own language.
7. Keep your sense of humor. It is important to be able to laugh. Allow
yourself to see the humor in misunderstandings and embarrassing
situations.
8. Set small goals for yourself. Remember that many of the things that
were easy for you may not be so easy in a new culture. Make realistic
goals so you can feel good about reaching them.
9. Ask questions and learn from others. If you don’t understand
something, remember that it is okay to ask for help. OSU faculty and
staff, classmates, and other international students can help answer
your questions and increase your understanding of American culture.
10. Keep a positive attitude. You will most likely experience some
negative feelings while you are in the U.S. While this is perfectly
normal, it is important to not let them dominate you. You might try
keeping a list of your enjoyable experiences so your outlook remains
positive.
Material adapted from Survival Kit for Overseas Living, Robert Kohls, Chicago: Intercultural Press, 1994.


